Scottie Posted May 15, 2011 Share Posted May 15, 2011 I am slowly getting money back, out of the £510 I lent her I’ve had £240. She phoned me the other night in tears because she has been getting threatening phone calls on her work phone. She was in a real state. I’ve never known her to get so upset. She kept saying sorry for getting me involved. We had a chat and then later on she texted me. She said that she is going to do her best to pay me back what she owes, she said thank you for being there for her, I am a true friend because I helped her out when she needed help. We spoke on the phone the next day, she thanked me for talking the night before. She said she was giving up her job as an escort but she still wants us to be friends, she said “You’ve been in my life for over two years” She said she felt silly for crying down the phone and I told her not to be daft, if she wanted to phone me and cry then do it, she thanked me again and blew a kiss down the phone! She said again I was a true friend because out of all her friends I was the only one who helped her out. I know what you are all going to say but maybe, just maybe this is genuine. Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 Keep counting your blessings that you're getting anything back. In fact, maybe set a low expectation/goal relating to the rest of that 510... Allow yourself to be quite pleased should you reach the 400 mark. (of course there remains the chance that she is buttering you up for another loan) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Scottie Posted May 19, 2011 Author Share Posted May 19, 2011 Well ***c me! She has paid me back the final amount she owed. Its all paid off! Lovley. Link to post Share on other sites
SincereOnlineGuy Posted May 21, 2011 Share Posted May 21, 2011 OK, then there is no further risk involved in letting her know that you have been writing steady updates on the internet in relation to the progress she has made in paying back your loan. So spill the beans, and let the fun begin. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted May 26, 2011 Share Posted May 26, 2011 Well, that's good she paid off all that she owes you. Don't lend her any money. She has a mom and other female friends, extended family to borrow from. Shield your heart. There is still something about her that screams "user" and you're a sweet guy, she has you figured out. Don't let yourself become emotionally attached. You are there for her, helping her, listening to her..But she doesn't seem to be there for you. It seems like a very one sided friendship..Sadly, my guess is if you needed to talk she wouldn't be there for you like you are there for her. Link to post Share on other sites
betterdeal Posted May 27, 2011 Share Posted May 27, 2011 Good stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
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