Username37 Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 May 16th is here. One year ago today. My ex flaked on me. Hopefully my story is known here, because typing it all is tough haha How I'm feeling now? Way better than me a year ago that's for sure. Through all of this I found out who were my true friends, that parents are NO help at all, and that an online group that consists of other heartbroken strangers could be the greatest help of them all I see her everyday. It stings. maybe because she was my first love. Wanting her back? No ****ing way. She's a totally different girl and someone I would not want to associate myself with. I'm still angry at her. At days I just want to pull her aside and tell her everything (I mean cmon, this **** started with a cake). I guess this is natural right? I feel good though. I'm looking forward to college and I'm seeing someone new. NC really works. I started my June 2010 and I'm still going. Thank you guys so much. You put up with me since June and probably saved me from doing something really really ****ing stupid. Thanks again guys and gals Link to post Share on other sites
collegeguy_24 Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 Glad we could help ya man. I'm glad to see your doing better, you certainly deserve better then the ex. Continue on this path and you'll do well. By the way, what college are you going to? Link to post Share on other sites
poorguy Posted May 16, 2011 Share Posted May 16, 2011 May 16th is here. One year ago today. My ex flaked on me. Hopefully my story is known here, because typing it all is tough haha How I'm feeling now? Way better than me a year ago that's for sure. Through all of this I found out who were my true friends, that parents are NO help at all, and that an online group that consists of other heartbroken strangers could be the greatest help of them all I see her everyday. It stings. maybe because she was my first love. Wanting her back? No ****ing way. She's a totally different girl and someone I would not want to associate myself with. I'm still angry at her. At days I just want to pull her aside and tell her everything (I mean cmon, this **** started with a cake). I guess this is natural right? I feel good though. I'm looking forward to college and I'm seeing someone new. NC really works. I started my June 2010 and I'm still going. Thank you guys so much. You put up with me since June and probably saved me from doing something really really ****ing stupid. Thanks again guys and gals Good for you!!! Glad to hear it. I wish you well and your ex...It's a journey, but it's one that makes you better Link to post Share on other sites
Thierro Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 You need to promise me this when you are old and wrinkled… You’ll have a scrapbook filled with photo’s of you owning every possible situation in your life. It needs to be over a thousand pages thick and it needs to show your awesomeness as a human being, places you went, your own personal development as a deep sophisticated man, notes from girls telling you that you are hot, smart and cute, your amazing skill set, your memoires… yadda yadda yadda If you don’t, we are going to find you and kick your butt. Never ever settle. Create your own Magnum opus and call it; My life. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Username37 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Share Posted May 18, 2011 You need to promise me this when you are old and wrinkled… You’ll have a scrapbook filled with photo’s of you owning every possible situation in your life. It needs to be over a thousand pages thick and it needs to show your awesomeness as a human being, places you went, your own personal development as a deep sophisticated man, notes from girls telling you that you are hot, smart and cute, your amazing skill set, your memoires… yadda yadda yadda If you don’t, we are going to find you and kick your butt. Never ever settle. Create your own Magnum opus and call it; My life. I will totally do this. I'm a really sentimental person haha Glad we could help ya man. I'm glad to see your doing better, you certainly deserve better then the ex. Continue on this path and you'll do well. By the way, what college are you going to? Thanks College. You stuck by me for the longest time. Hope you're doing well too And I'm going to Reno for college. Where you at? Link to post Share on other sites
collegeguy_24 Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Thanks College. You stuck by me for the longest time. Hope you're doing well too And I'm going to Reno for college. Where you at? My love life is complicated, I've been taling about the ex recently if you want to take a look at my new thread. I'm in Montana for college, far north of Reno lol. I stuck by you and you've stuck by me. We are as good as brothers in dealing with the pain of betrayal. Link to post Share on other sites
Thierro Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 We learned a valuable lesson: http://img546.imageshack.us/img546/66/howtohandleabreakup.png Link to post Share on other sites
reimeivn Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 It is true that parents are no help at all. my mother kept putting pressure on me telling me how slow I am in forgetting him. He was my first everything, broke up in the meanest way possible, and its not even two months yet. I stop crying over him, but talking to my mom just made me cry again. Why is that I am never good enough for anybody at all? Link to post Share on other sites
Gack Posted July 7, 2011 Share Posted July 7, 2011 It is true that parents are no help at all. my mother kept putting pressure on me telling me how slow I am in forgetting him. He was my first everything, broke up in the meanest way possible, and its not even two months yet. I stop crying over him, but talking to my mom just made me cry again. Why is that I am never good enough for anybody at all? Hey it happened to me. My girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me. Cheated on me with another guy. She was the faithful and sticky sort. Everyone admired us and although at the start everybody felt i was a playboy because my personality was quite the type. They said we wouldn't last, plus it was a love at 1st sight thing. After chatting with her online we became an item. Her parents objected and wanted to transfer her out of school but couldn't because there was no vacant positions in other schools. I sent her home everyday which was like 3 hours to her house and back home. Had to go out with her friend so that when her mom called her friend could pick up. Basically fought for her and throughout our relationship i surprise and celebrate anniversaries every month. She wanted it like that and i would use up so many ideas just to make her happy. Now she cheated on me with another guy and everyone who knew couldn't believe it. She changed and kept going out everyday with the new guy who like her from the past. I gave her my everything and treat her like my life. She just up and dump me, posting status on Facebook saying how much he is enjoying him and the activities they are doing. She couldn't give me a solid answer except i was too harsh on her and her feelings waned. I told her it because she kept repeating her mistakes even though i kept reminding her that why i was pissed. Imo you are good enough. I think you are good enough for me. I was so good to her but in the end it still isn't enough for her and i already gave my all. I hope at least you feel better. This happened to me 3 weeks ago and now i'm improving myself still. I hope i can find a girl that can commit and appreciate everything i done. No lies, cheating or broken promises. It sucks to go thru that again. Link to post Share on other sites
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