waytogo Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I don't know what is allowed on here.. but would like to put a real pic up of me on profile.. is that allowed ?? at least then you will see I am a real person ! I'm not trying to pick on you. Have you seen a picture of the BW in your situation? Do you realize she is a real person also? You are not an ungly girl, but you are not stunning either. There are plenty of women not as pretty as you, and pleny much prettier. If one of the latter comes along and gives this MM an ego boost, attention, do you really think his sights will still be on you? Or just his wife and you? For that matter, even one less attractive may well stroke his ego just as well. You said yourself "he's lacking attention from wife". Maybe, maybe not. Why is it your lot in life to make that up to him while he sits right where he has chosen to be, but whine about it? Link to post Share on other sites
26pointblue Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I'm not trying to pick on you. Have you seen a picture of the BW in your situation? Do you realize she is a real person also? You are not an ungly girl, but you are not stunning either. There are plenty of women not as pretty as you, and pleny much prettier. If one of the latter comes along and gives this MM an ego boost, attention, do you really think his sights will still be on you? Or just his wife and you? For that matter, even one less attractive may well stroke his ego just as well. You said yourself "he's lacking attention from wife". Maybe, maybe not. Why is it your lot in life to make that up to him while he sits right where he has chosen to be, but whine about it? I think the comments about looks are a little uncalled for & I don't think it matters what the wife, OW, etc. looks like . . . if a man wants to cheat, he is going to cheat. Look at Tiger Woods' wife, look at Shania Twain . . . cheaters are going to be cheaters no matter what the person they are with looks like. My xMM's wife is very stunning, a real head-turner, everyone always says how beautiful she is, & he cheated on her. So there ya go. Looks really don't matter in an affair. But I think if a man values what he has he won't cheat. And if we value what we have & think we are beautiful no matter what any MM thinks, we will hold out for a real relationship. Just my opinion after learning the hard way. :-) Link to post Share on other sites
waytogo Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I think the comments about looks are a little uncalled for & I don't think it matters what the wife, OW, etc. looks like . . . if a man wants to cheat, he is going to cheat. Look at Tiger Woods' wife, look at Shania Twain . . . cheaters are going to be cheaters no matter what the person they are with looks like. My xMM's wife is very stunning, a real head-turner, everyone always says how beautiful she is, & he cheated on her. So there ya go. Looks really don't matter in an affair. But I think if a man values what he has he won't cheat. And if we value what we have & think we are beautiful no matter what any MM thinks, we will hold out for a real relationship. Just my opinion after learning the hard way. :-) I agree Point. I wasn't insulting her looks. She's a cute girl actually. I sense she is feeling off the charts beautiful because this MM gives her attention. Her validation needs to come from somewhere else. You said it better than I did though:) Link to post Share on other sites
26pointblue Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I agree Point. I wasn't insulting her looks. She's a cute girl actually. I sense she is feeling off the charts beautiful because this MM gives her attention. Her validation needs to come from somewhere else. You said it better than I did though:) Okay I see what you mean now, sorry. :-) Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 I think I'm gorgeous inside and out.. Yes, I know what the W looks like. She is very cute just don't feel they are right for one another.. And what does looks have to do with anything. Me and MM have a bond, yes we are both physically attracted to each other but for sure that is not all it is.. Yes, we talk about sexual stuff but also spend many other hours talking about various other things. Haha.. and Yes, with the amount of $$ I have at this current moment I would for sure bet it all, why not.. I have had plenty of up and downs in romance. You can call me crazy, delusional, in dreamland or what ever you want.. Still something in me that says it will work.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 I am an extremely confident girl.. sometimes turning people off and have been called cocky to may times to count. MM says that is what he likes about me. MM is super cute and sexy (probably better looking than me) but doesn't have quite the same amount of confidence as I do, but then again most don't I will never applogize about my confidence. I sometimes wonder myself where it comes from, my Mom says I have just always been that way although not exactly how I remember it being when I was young. And I am not talking about looks..Looks don't mean ****, if you saw my son's father you would for sure know I do not go for looks. (he is definitely not the best looking man). Looks are nice, but a true connection has nothing to do with that !! Link to post Share on other sites
BB07 Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 Why is it every time I read one of vm's posts I feel the need to put on my thigh high boots to wade through the bs? Let's see........an intern who uses the word retarded who said she has worked with special needs, an intern who has 11 hours to text with her mm, an intern who lacks quite a bit in the way of spelling and grammar, an intern who posts her real pic on her profile AND posts what state she is in.:rolleyes: Anybody else.....had to put their boots on? :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
fooled once Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 We got it. You are stunning. MM is more stunning. You and he are twins/soulmates/whatever You believe his marriage is over. You believe you are everything to him. WE GET IT ALREADY!!! Not sure why you feel the need to continue to go on and on and on. You will NOT convince many of us and if you are so confident, which the exact opposite is what you are displaying by the constant and incessant need to jam it down our throats who wonderful the two of you are. Got it. Can we please move on? You aren't asking for support or asking questions. You are using your posts to take a 'dig' at some of the betrayed wives (current and former) who post here. That isn't a very mature thing to do. But we got it. You and MM are made for each other; and one day he will divorce. Got it. Link to post Share on other sites
waytogo Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 I am an extremely confident girl.. sometimes turning people off and have been called cocky to may times to count. MM says that is what he likes about me. MM is super cute and sexy (probably better looking than me) but doesn't have quite the same amount of confidence as I do, but then again most don't I will never applogize about my confidence. I sometimes wonder myself where it comes from, my Mom says I have just always been that way although not exactly how I remember it being when I was young. And I am not talking about looks..Looks don't mean ****, if you saw my son's father you would for sure know I do not go for looks. (he is definitely not the best looking man). Looks are nice, but a true connection has nothing to do with that !! I've been some harsh with you. Mostly, it is frustrating to see someone drinking from the delusion pond that even in about the best case, which may just have been mine, was poison. The people who behave 'cocky' are the most insecure. I've seen it well enough. I've lived it myself. How may I ask this gently? The man you fathered your child with, you now don't consider him attractive. Was he the most beautiful thing in your eyes when you laid down with him to create your amazing son? Link to post Share on other sites
waytogo Posted May 17, 2011 Share Posted May 17, 2011 Okay I see what you mean now, sorry. :-) No harm love Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 17, 2011 Author Share Posted May 17, 2011 I said some people would say cocky !! My son's father was not that good looking no, and I never thought he was. That is not what attracted me to him.. Thanks, I know MM was made for me. Plus gotta go read his email, I'm outta here for now ! Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Toilet paper please. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Share Posted May 18, 2011 Some of you on here are SO rude !!! Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 I said some people would say cocky !! And, many more people would say "delusional"!! Honestly, you present yourself in a very poor light in so very many ways!! Sure, we might all be "sworn" women (do you think we've been initiated in some type of secret society like the Elks or something? WHAT?!!) but you really might want to consider that almost every single person here has been calling you out over an over!! Even the 2 or 3 who can consistently be counted upon to cheer on any and every woman who is dallying within someone else's marriage have remained uncharacteristically silent where you're concerned!! You certainly don't have to agree with the responses you are getting to your threads!! But it might be in your best interests to at least consider them!! They are pretty consistent!! I asked you earlier, and maybe on another thread, but you have not responded ... what are you looking for advice on, or what kind of support are you seeking?!! You said you hoped you had "better luck" here than on the last forum you joined; how's this working out for you?!! Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Toilet paper please. I'm gonna need the whole toilet!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Share Posted May 18, 2011 Nope, I'm not really looking for advice. I am happy with my MM and our relationship. It has been slowly progressing since we meet. We continue to get closer and closer all the time. I get real advice from people who know and understand me IRL. I get even better advice and perspective from the few people who know us both and know of the situation. NOT EVERY MAN IS THE SAME.. NOT ALL MM's ARE LIAR'S.. Are there any men on this forum ??? Poor men, oh how you are getting bashed !! MM's have stuggles to you know, they are real people with real feelings and some of them do truly love, respect and am thankful for the OW in their lives. If nothing else, I know 100% my MM values at least the friendship portion of our relationship and I will never ever be upset we met and had this journey.. Love my boy !! silly and all ! Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Nope, I'm not really looking for advice. I am happy with my MM and our relationship. It has been slowly progressing since we meet. We continue to get closer and closer all the time. I get real advice from people who know and understand me IRL. I get even better advice and perspective from the few people who know us both and know of the situation. NOT EVERY MAN IS THE SAME.. NOT ALL MM's ARE LIAR'S.. Are there any men on this forum ??? Poor men, oh how you are getting bashed !! MM's have stuggles to you know, they are real people with real feelings and some of them do truly love, respect and am thankful for the OW in their lives. If nothing else, I know 100% my MM values at least the friendship portion of our relationship and I will never ever be upset we met and had this journey.. Love my boy !! silly and all ! Uh-huh...... Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Share Posted May 18, 2011 Im done with classes !!! Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Nope, I'm not really looking for advice. I am happy with my MM and our relationship. It has been slowly progressing since we meet. We continue to get closer and closer all the time. I get real advice from people who know and understand me IRL. I get even better advice and perspective from the few people who know us both and know of the situation. NOT EVERY MAN IS THE SAME.. NOT ALL MM's ARE LIAR'S.. Are there any men on this forum ??? Poor men, oh how you are getting bashed !! MM's have stuggles to you know, they are real people with real feelings and some of them do truly love, respect and am thankful for the OW in their lives. If nothing else, I know 100% my MM values at least the friendship portion of our relationship and I will never ever be upset we met and had this journey.. Love my boy !! silly and all ! LOL do you really believe the married man you have been preying on is not a liar? If you believe that then you must know he shares all your sexual chat with his wife who prob gets off on it. If you don't think that is the case then he is a liar. Link to post Share on other sites
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seren Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 This whole thread feels like Groundhog Day. I am also having a Deja Vu moment, could swear I have read something similar, albeit in a different guise. Anyway, I agree VWeb, when you said that: NOT EVERY MAN IS THE SAME.. NOT ALL MM's ARE LIAR'S.. in big caps on for emphasis. No, not all MM are liars, BUT, MM who are having affairs are, it goes with the territory, unfortunately and applies to both the AP and the BS. From your posts I gather that you are happy in the relationship with the MM, that you and he are meant and that you both share a never felt before connection, then surely the right course of action is for him to leave and be with you. I don't know how anyone who feels as deeply as you can even bear to share with someone else. Personally, I could never knowingly share the man I love with anyone, to do so is outside my understanding of what love really is. Had my H told me that he loved the OW and wanted to be with her, I would have wished him well and got on with my life - most BS would, truly, possibly his would too. Surely you would want him to be honest and be with you always, so what stops him? or is it just a short term amazing meeting of soulmates. Not bashing you, it would be too easy, struggling to understand how it is enough. How often do you meet given this is a LD relationship? Link to post Share on other sites
bittersweet memories Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 If nothing else I have learned a lot from my EA and MM. I have no idea how things will end up but happy I have learned a whole new lesson. As someone who tends to focus on the physical so much, it is a whole new world when you don't have this to focus on. When you only focus on your emotional aspects of a relationship it can become SO intense. When you don't have the physical you can really get to know someone on a whole new level. And then if and when you do become sexual IRL it is sure to be Amazing !! Some people don't understand why I haven't seen my MM in person in so long, but now it makes sense to me. If we had of met up and became physical before I'm sure it would of hindered the way we have opened up to one another. Some things are worth the wait You are head over heels over someone you have not met in person. You've been having chats for the past 5months. Why hasn't he asked to meet you? hmmm, sounds like he's bored and is pullling your leg. Just sayin... Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Im done with classes !!! I think you need to go to summer school!! Clearly there are some gaping holes in your education!! Link to post Share on other sites
Mimolicious Posted May 18, 2011 Share Posted May 18, 2011 Why is it every time I read one of vm's posts I feel the need to put on my thigh high boots to wade through the bs? Let's see........an intern who uses the word retarded who said she has worked with special needs, an intern who has 11 hours to text with her mm, an intern who lacks quite a bit in the way of spelling and grammar, an intern who posts her real pic on her profile AND posts what state she is in.:rolleyes: Anybody else.....had to put their boots on? :lmao: My JimmyChoo's Hunter boots are usually on, since it doesn't stop raining.... FML! VWeb, I want to ask you. What is the new perspective that this EA has given you though? Come again, cause I missed the point. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 18, 2011 Author Share Posted May 18, 2011 I know MM from classes.. He practically sat on my lap for an entire year. Relationship is not long distance, but haven't seen each other in a while. Pretty sure things would get out of hand and we are TRYING to be good.. Both of us ! Gaps in my education- Yeah, what ever!! I'm applying to grad school very soon and will have you know, I was a great student.. So you can say what ever you want.. What's your education ?? University of Taco Bell ??? Bahahahahhaha!! Link to post Share on other sites
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