Emotional affair has given me new perspective !

[bentnotbroken]

Amazing..........

[Mimolicious]

Can you use the "Quote" button when you are going to reply to a specific poster?

 

You sound like you are talking to yourself, since we don't know who you are replying to. LOL!

[vweb1218]

Can you use the "Quote" button when you are going to reply to a specific poster?

 

You sound like you are talking to yourself, since we don't know who you are replying to. LOL!

 

Mimo, Why do you read any of my post anyways.. You don't seem to like any of them !

[vweb1218]

Amazing..........

 

Me ?? Yes, I know.. Thank you !

[bentnotbroken]

Me ?? Yes, I know.. Thank you !

 

 

Sure...if that makes you day....think that.

[Mimolicious]

Mimo, Why do you read any of my post anyways.. You don't seem to like any of them !

 

 

That's not true! I don't have to like them though... You have to like them. Who am I? I was suggesting you use a useful feature available on the site, so people (including me) can follow you. It's hard to follow not knowing who you are talking to. Seems like you took the suggestion and ran with it.

 

But on that note... (Oh those who know me, can guess what's coming)

 

I really don't give a ratsass!

[vweb1218]

That's not true! I don't have to like them though... You have to like them. Who am I? I was suggesting you use a useful feature available on the site, so people (including me) can follow you. It's hard to follow not knowing who you are talking to. Seems like you took the suggestion and ran with it.

 

But on that note... (Oh those who know me, can guess what's coming)

 

I really don't give a ratsass!

 

Cool.. thanks for the cool feature suggestion...now I can respond to you quickly all the time

[greengoddess]

vweb 15 years from now if you are not still desperate and single you are going to be very ashamed of how you behaved now and your posts on here.

I hope you remember them.

[waytogo]

vweb 15 years from now if you are not still desperate and single you are going to be very ashamed of how you behaved now and your posts on here.

I hope you remember them.

 

So true Green. While I didn't post when in the situation, for a while I sure felt clever. I wonder if only the foolish feel clever. I never see a truely clever person claiming to be so. Hmmm, something new to ponder

[bittersweet memories]

vweb 15 years from now if you are not still desperate and single you are going to be very ashamed of how you behaved now and your posts on here.

I hope you remember them.

 

Whats sad is we can't blame it on her age, its not like she's in her 20's and just starting life.

 

You would think when you hit your 40's you would be more mature and start acting your age.

 

She comes across as being young but she's not..

Edited May 18, 2011 by bittersweet memories

[vweb1218]

vweb 15 years from now if you are not still desperate and single you are going to be very ashamed of how you behaved now and your posts on here.

I hope you remember them.

 

I have not problem being single !!! Actually love it most of the time !!

 

Never every been desperate a single day of my life.... I never search for love, boyfriends or attractions. What ever comes naturally is what was meant for me. You sound jealous !!

[vweb1218]

Whats sad is we can't blame it on her age, its not like she's in her 20's and just starting life.

 

You would think when you hit your 40's you would be more mature and start acting your age.

 

She comes across as being young but she's not..

 

Insults and more insults.... Jealous, what else could it be.. I never bash woman unless I was bashed first..

 

Go read my comments on other posts, I am alway positive and sweet and never say things like you do !!

[waytogo]

I have not problem being single !!! Actually love it most of the time !!

 

Never every been desperate a single day of my life.... I never search for love, boyfriends or attractions. What ever comes naturally is what was meant for me. You sound jealous !!

 

Vweb, I believe I've been nice to you. Greeneyedglass is not dumb and she sure isn't jealous. Where is 'your man' now. Is he coming off a drunk to show a sober self to someone (his W) he wants to see him as a good man?

 

Did he masterbate to you over webcam while still wanting the real thing with the person he will at least try to live a real life with? Even if he didn't do that today, has he done this ever? According to your posts, he has.

 

No matter what you've posted, many see you are lonely and clinging to this person who throws some attention your way. I've been there. That's why I won't bash you (but you do make it so easy for others at times, I want to say that gently, but not sure if possible).

 

Noone is jealous of you. The biggest thing in your life is a cyber talk, inapropriate cyber action over cyber porn with an unavailable and non-impressive man. A man who is also in short driving distance, but he never drives to see you.

 

Not to mention, if you have been honest, you have put so much personal information and a PICTURE of yourself to go along with all of this. There is a group that already has every bit of this. If you take it down now, they still have it. They may send this to your work, MM's wife. I'm not part of it, but I know what they do. Are you prepared for the consequenses? Do you really think anyone will be jealous of that?

[vweb1218]

Vweb, I believe I've been nice to you. Greeneyedglass is not dumb and she sure isn't jealous. Where is 'your man' now. Is he coming off a drunk to show a sober self to someone (his W) he wants to see him as a good man?

 

Did he masterbate to you over webcam while still wanting the real thing with the person he will at least try to live a real life with? Even if he didn't do that today, has he done this ever? According to your posts, he has.

 

No matter what you've posted, many see you are lonely and clinging to this person who throws some attention your way. I've been there. That's why I won't bash you (but you do make it so easy for others at times, I want to say that gently, but not sure if possible).

 

Noone is jealous of you. The biggest thing in your life is a cyber talk, inapropriate cyber action over cyber porn with an unavailable and non-impressive man. A man who is also in short driving distance, but he never drives to see you.

 

Not to mention, if you have been honest, you have put so much personal information and a PICTURE of yourself to go along with all of this. There is a group that already has every bit of this. If you take it down now, they still have it. They may send this to your work, MM's wife. I'm not part of it, but I know what they do. Are you prepared for the consequenses? Do you really think anyone will be jealous of that?[/quote

 

My MM is at work, chatting with him now !!

 

He can't drive he has no legs,,,hahahhaha!!

 

The biggest thing in my life is my SON !!!

 

Is that a treat do you no me personally ?

[ladydesigner]

vweb1218 I would be embarrassed by a lot of the posts you have made. Just be happy being the OW and leave it at that, no need to explain or justify. That's cool. It just seems the more you respond the more attacks seem to come and I believe this whole thread is counterproductive. If I were the moderator I would have already closed it.

[26pointblue]

What is any of this supposed to mean?

 

My MM is at work, chatting with him now !!

 

He can't drive he has no legs,,,hahahhaha!!

 

The biggest thing in my life is my SON !!!

 

Is that a treat do you no me personally ?

 

Your MM has no legs? Treat? 'No you' ? What are you talking about?

[waytogo]

Vweb, I believe I've been nice to you. Greeneyedglass is not dumb and she sure isn't jealous. Where is 'your man' now. Is he coming off a drunk to show a sober self to someone (his W) he wants to see him as a good man?

 

Did he masterbate to you over webcam while still wanting the real thing with the person he will at least try to live a real life with? Even if he didn't do that today, has he done this ever? According to your posts, he has.

 

No matter what you've posted, many see you are lonely and clinging to this person who throws some attention your way. I've been there. That's why I won't bash you (but you do make it so easy for others at times, I want to say that gently, but not sure if possible).

 

Noone is jealous of you. The biggest thing in your life is a cyber talk, inapropriate cyber action over cyber porn with an unavailable and non-impressive man. A man who is also in short driving distance, but he never drives to see you.

 

Not to mention, if you have been honest, you have put so much personal information and a PICTURE of yourself to go along with all of this. There is a group that already has every bit of this. If you take it down now, they still have it. They may send this to your work, MM's wife. I'm not part of it, but I know what they do. Are you prepared for the consequenses? Do you really think anyone will be jealous of that?[/quote

 

My MM is at work, chatting with him now !!

 

He can't drive he has no legs,,,hahahhaha!!

 

The biggest thing in my life is my SON !!!

 

Is that a treat do you no me personally ?

 

What time is it for your MM? He's at work, does he work night shift? If not, how does he do the dayboozing that is someone else's fault but his own?

 

He really has no legs, or is that a joke as funny as 'retarded'? You added haha...so it's hard to tell. Even if no legs, does he get himself to work, but never to see you in person?

 

I didn't ask about your son. Hopefully he is the biggest thing in your life. Unfortunately, it wouldn't seem so. You didn't come here posting on family/children raising forums, so great to love my son, you posted over and again about great cyber life with MM.

 

You probably meant 'threat', not treat. It was neither. I've let you know what happens to careless people who feel invinsable with their TMI. No, I don't 'no', helping you, know you. There are people who will make a point to KNOW you and anyone in your path of destruction. I haven't agreed to all their methods, but the more 'in your face' you get with people who have tried to bring you some place close to center, the more I really won't mind what they do to you. It's going to go how it goes. I doubt we'll ever hear the end, cause you won't be posting that. You're here to say it's great. You've bosted. You will never have the guts to come here and admit it went straight to hell, and you know that is true. I do hope you get the help you so obviously need.

[whichwayisup]

Men leave wife't to be with other woman all the time. One of the main reason's people get divorced. If I feel he is my true love, just like me. Then why wouldn't I be optimistic ? Stranger things have happened, someone has to win ! Besides ever heard of what you think will happen will happen??

Yes, sometimes they do leave and divorce, but in most cases, they don't.

 

He could be your true love, you can want and wish him to leave his wife and be with you all you want..But, that is out of your hands completely. It's his decision to make and even then, he'll have to deal with reaction from his wife, which easily could kick gear him into changing his mind, depending on her reaction (either she agrees or tries to fight for her marriage and not hand him over to you)..

 

Someone has to win? Explain that one.

[bittersweet memories]

Did it ever occur to you that your wait may be eternal?

 

Men are pretty physical, visual creatures.

 

From what I've seen, EA are only EA because one of the partners wants to "pretend" they are not cheating because they haven't had sex.

 

I don't know many men who have this hugely deep emotional connection with someone and not want to be physical with her as quickly as possible.

 

You know if he's not getting it from you, he's getting it somewhere else.

 

I don't say this to hurt or bait you, just to keep it real. Unless you are asexual, you're not getting your needs met and that's not part of a healthy relationship. And making excuses for it and pretending it's what you want isn't going to get you what you do want.

 

Totally agree! Great post

[waytogo]

Did it ever occur to you that your wait may be eternal?

 

Men are pretty physical, visual creatures.

 

From what I've seen, EA are only EA because one of the partners wants to "pretend" they are not cheating because they haven't had sex.

 

I don't know many men who have this hugely deep emotional connection with someone and not want to be physical with her as quickly as possible.

 

You know if he's not getting it from you, he's getting it somewhere else.

 

I don't say this to hurt or bait you, just to keep it real. Unless you are asexual, you're not getting your needs met and that's not part of a healthy relationship. And making excuses for it and pretending it's what you want isn't going to get you what you do want.

 

 

She's not getting what she wants. All of her story out there, she is never going to, not from this MM. I had some empathy along the way. That's pretty much gone. She wants to parade it as if it makes her special. She is so consumed by her loneliness that her son takes a backseat to cyber and text contact with an unavailable man. She can say she's the 'most involved parent' all she wants. She didn't seek a forum to discuss loving her son, she posted she needs no help, and has the greatest cyber R possible. So close are they. There's nothing she needs from any of us. Plus, we are just SO jealous of her anyway

[vweb1218]

What is any of this supposed to mean?

 

 

 

Your MM has no legs? Treat? 'No you' ? What are you talking about?

 

He can't pick me up, he has no legs !! hahahaha !

[vweb1218]

Yes, sometimes they do leave and divorce, but in most cases, they don't.

 

He could be your true love, you can want and wish him to leave his wife and be with you all you want..But, that is out of your hands completely. It's his decision to make and even then, he'll have to deal with reaction from his wife, which easily could kick gear him into changing his mind, depending on her reaction (either she agrees or tries to fight for her marriage and not hand him over to you)..

 

Someone has to win? Explain that one.

 

Of course it is in his hands !! I would never ask him to leave. He has to look inside and think and find out what he wants and needs. And I don't just mean in marriage, he is in a transition phase all together. I know he has other things that are up in the air. I think he needs another man trip personally or a mini sabatical without his phone. He is extremely bored with life all together and I get it because I get like that as well. Only difference is I have major change on the horizon and I think that bothers him, because he does not. Well he could but if he stays not much of his life will be changing !

[vweb1218]

She's not getting what she wants. All of her story out there, she is never going to, not from this MM. I had some empathy along the way. That's pretty much gone. She wants to parade it as if it makes her special. She is so consumed by her loneliness that her son takes a backseat to cyber and text contact with an unavailable man. She can say she's the 'most involved parent' all she wants. She didn't seek a forum to discuss loving her son, she posted she needs no help, and has the greatest cyber R possible. So close are they. There's nothing she needs from any of us. Plus, we are just SO jealous of her anyway

 

How dare you !! My son always rides shot gun.. No back seat for my boy !!

 

Once again, what is there to discuss about my son ? He is great. He is in 1st grade-at the top of his class for sure. Smarter than everyone me included. Picked out his career and college at 2, was a fluent reader by 3, memorized and knew everything about the US presidents by 5.

 

Worried about his (extreme perfectionism) so if you have some advice on that one, I will take it.

 

Also his room is a mess (not perfect) How do I get him to keep it clean, looks like hell all the time. Think a perfectionist would want a clean room, I don't get it !

 

Plus my son is 7 and can't ride a bike with out trainers.. (that's frustrating)

 

Oh and I am waiting for an appointment with his allergist ..

 

Geez so much to talk about with him.

 

Plus I am not sure where to take him on our (Mommy date ) this weekend? Any suggestions ?

[greengoddess]

Of course it is in his hands !! I would never ask him to leave. He has to look inside and think and find out what he wants and needs. And I don't just mean in marriage, he is in a transition phase all together. I know he has other things that are up in the air. I think he needs another man trip personally or a mini sabatical without his phone. He is extremely bored with life all together and I get it because I get like that as well. Only difference is I have major change on the horizon and I think that bothers him, because he does not. Well he could but if he stays not much of his life will be changing !

 

and that says it all right there. Don't you get it? You are entertainment for when he is bored at work or at home. Real live Porn he uses.

[Mme. Chaucer]

Maybe he shud get an account here n post witchu too. He mite get off n it !!

 

Haha!! I think that's a great idea!!

 

Hey!! Maybe you can help me!! I am too fat!! I want to lose weight, but I also want to eat one dozen Krispy Kreme donuts this morning!! I'm gonna eat the donuts!! Does this mean I have a split self?? And does this mean that it's okay that I eat the donuts??

 

Thanks!!!!