Ya know what I hate?

[alphamale]

So guys. If you have to "chase" a girl. It's probably because she's not interested.

which is why i always say that its women that start relationships and allow them to progress

[DreamerGirl27]

which is why i always say that its women that start relationships and allow them to progress

 

I would love initiating a relationship with a guy. No guy will have me.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

This sort of mentality men still have of where they want to chase a woman and it's the "thrill of the chase" that gets and keeps them interested. I was just listening to something my mom was watching and even though it's 2011, that still seems to be the mentality. Men want what they can't have.

 

I don't play that game. I don't play hard to get. Ya know, I'm not some wildebeest in nature with a lion on my tail who wants to catch me and if I were, once it did, I wouldn't be too happy, now would I?

 

When I like a guy, I don't want to act aloof and tell him "I'm busy" on occasion to make it seem like my life is so busy I just don't have time for him. I want to shout it on top of a mountain, I want to tell him how cute his dimples are, hell...I want to tell him how cute his butt is, even. I want to let him know that I am in love with him and only him and I don't and couldn't imagine myself being with anyone else. When I like a guy, I don't want to run in the other direction, I want to run TO him. I WANT to be caught.

 

If I'm playing hard to get, it's because I'm not interested.

 

I will never be some game you can conquer and convince to like you because you're so awesome. I don't function that way, never have, never will. If I don't like you, I don't like you and no amount of "chasing" will ever do you any good. In fact, it'd probably make me ignore you, block you, and get a restraining order against you if need be.

 

Anyway.

 

Just wanted to vent about how stupid it is that men love the "thrill of the chase".

 

Now...some women cave. I always hear the line, "I didn't think I liked him at first" or "he wasn't really my type, but then I got to know his personality." and yada yada yada.

 

Hog wash. No amount of personality can make me love your beer gut, ugly face, receding hair line or anything of that sort.

 

So guys. If you have to "chase" a girl. It's probably because she's not interested.

 

At least that's how it is in my case.

 

I hate games.

 

 

 

LOL - well, you keep looking for your "sole mate", and when you get down the road a bit and can't figure out why you can't find him... harken back to this post.