hopless romantic Posted December 15, 1998 Share Posted December 15, 1998 i'm 15 i can't find the right girl all the girls in my school are shallow and self centerd and if i open up to her she might turn on me and tell everyone about what only she and my past girlfriends already know help me find that girl for me Link to post Share on other sites
Bails Posted December 15, 1998 Share Posted December 15, 1998 To confused I'm 19 years old and have been through the same thing.My advice to you is to just chill out.You're still way too young to be looking for true love.Try having a couple of one-nighters but remember to always shower with a raincoat.Girls at your age find it very hard to commit to one guy.Even if you're falling in love don't tell her until you're sure that she feels the same way.See how she treats you around her friends.If she acts like a bitch then tell her.If she says she's sorry and wasn't aware that she was being one,give her a second chance.If she flat out denies it and says that your being paranoid then tell her she's ugly and you were only seeing her cos you felt sorry for her.If she really likes you you'll notice the next time you're with her and her friends.If they speak to you more and she includes you in more of the conversations then you know she's trying.If not try giving her some of her own medicine and see how she like being ignored in front of your friends.If this fails then you know she's not the right one. Don't try to work females out cos there is no answer.If you think you know how a girl ticks,then you know she's the right one. Don't get me wrong,most girls are great fun but beware of the other side that they keep hidden sooo well. Good luck Bails i'm 15 i can't find the right girl all the girls in my school are shallow and self centerd and if i open up to her she might turn on me and tell everyone about what only she and my past girlfriends already know help me find that girl for me Link to post Share on other sites
skye Posted December 15, 1998 Share Posted December 15, 1998 I hear you about that. A lot of the guys at my school are the same way. But, I am one of those girls you can trust NOT to tell anything you don't want to be known by others. I know you probably hear that a lot but I am also looking for someone who isn't so stuck up. I will tell you more if you decide to e-mail me. Peace out. Love Always, Skye i'm 15 i can't find the right girl all the girls in my school are shallow and self centerd and if i open up to her she might turn on me and tell everyone about what only she and my past girlfriends already know help me find that girl for me Link to post Share on other sites
Ryan Posted December 16, 1998 Share Posted December 16, 1998 First, don't take much of what Bails said seriously because most of what he said was poor advice. At 15, you aren't going to find the right girl. You'd be hard pressed to find the right girl by 25. At 15 it's pretty typical to not be overly deep or intellectual. At that age, you just haven't matured and developed to that level yet. The best thing right now is to not be so concerned about what the rest of the world is saying. It may seem important to have acceptance, but high school really is a tiny part of your life which you don't need to stress over regarding some short relationships. This is a time to learn a little about yourself and relationships in general. Don't expect anything to be very serious, since you are figuring out yourself and other people. Be true to yourself and don't change because someone else might not like it. The people worth your time are going to be impressed by who you are. Have a little patience, you have many years of life and love yet to experience. Link to post Share on other sites
Charly Posted December 18, 1998 Share Posted December 18, 1998 No offense intended, but I think at 15 you should give up looking for the 'right girl' and look for the 'right girl for now'....that is much more fun, and a better learning experience. You are young....enjoy it!! i'm 15 i can't find the right girl all the girls in my school are shallow and self centerd and if i open up to her she might turn on me and tell everyone about what only she and my past girlfriends already know help me find that girl for me Link to post Share on other sites
Phil Posted December 22, 1998 Share Posted December 22, 1998 I think that a romantic mind is very special and I hope that no-one takes that away from you. You are young though, and yes, not everyone may be looking for the right one. Someone will be, you're one of the guys who is looking. If you're a true romantic, you won't force anything to happen and just meet new people and see what develops with them. You might meet somone like you is looking for that special relationship, and they find it you after getting to know you. Stranger things have happened, but remember to just go with the flow, if you look too hard you might see something that isn't really there, you just want it to be. You could end up getting hurt. Keep your head on your shoulders, and meet new people and wait for that one, it'll happen but maybe not before your 16th birthday. That's my advice, but it's your call.... Phil. Link to post Share on other sites
Jenny Posted December 23, 1998 Share Posted December 23, 1998 i'm 15 i can't find the right girl all the girls in my school are shallow and self centerd and if i open up to her she might turn on me and tell everyone about what only she and my past girlfriends already know help me find that girl for me Yeah... y'know what? A lot of girls are absolute bitches and will do that to you. On the other hand, there are the ones that are big sweethearts and would do anything for you once you get to know them. It's just a case of waiting it out and letting things happen. Don't rush into stuff until you get to know the other person.. I betcha' you'd be surprised at how many decent girls are out there looking for the exact same thing. I'm a 15 year old girl and I'm trying to find the exact same thing and if somebody told me what you just said, oh my God... good luck Link to post Share on other sites
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