Author vweb1218 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Share Posted May 20, 2011 So he told you to tune in to chanel 69 cause he was at home watching and you tuned in? Something like that? Lol, I guess !! kinda weird I know !!! I was a cybersex virgin, think it's stupid unless you know and are attracted to the person. Ends up fun and exciting with him surprisingly !! Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Share Posted May 20, 2011 That is so sexy, and hot! Wow, I'm going to have to have my H move out, so we can have such a special relationship. This real live making love and making a home together couldn't possibly compare to that:rolleyes: Go google: Emotional affairs !!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Share Posted May 20, 2011 Oh for f**** sake, tazing and making people think you're a cop? You are no longer even remotely believable. FTR, I'd rather face a beatdown and getting robbed at 3AM walking down Jamaica than dealing with BS when she shows up at the door pissed that you have posted details about her reproductive system online. Plenty of people have tried to warn you. If you are real you deserve what you get at this point. Ask me anything about Jamaica and I can tell you.. You don't have to believe me. Everyone thinks your a cop when you are one of the only white people in the neighborhood !! Do you know how many people have medical conditions that prevent them from having children and our married to a cute 29 year old ??? I didn't even put what city I live in. Michigan has 9.97 million people and 3,553 towns. I highly doubt anyone is going to pin point me. Only a few of my good friends, my Mom and one fantastic professor even know about me and his involvement so I do not understand how you really think I will be outed. Once again I did not say anything about him that can define him. So get real.. Maybe I will win the lotto also !! Like anyone is going to read all though this like that.. I'm not worried. If he gets caught it will be on his account !! Link to post Share on other sites
waytogo Posted May 20, 2011 Share Posted May 20, 2011 Go google: Emotional affairs !!!!!!!!!!!!! No need for me to do th at. You however, should google for any insite you can find. This guy has no emotion for you. He'll replace his ego boost in any second. You want to drop in on him at work. Does he bother to drop in on you? No, would interfere with his dayboozing. You don't near compete with that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Share Posted May 20, 2011 Why is "school" in quotation marks? Maybe because it's not actually a real "school," but maybe some online course ... the kind that are advertised on television at 3:00 a.m. along with "live chat! talk to hott singles in your area!" type of things? That sounds just about right!! School is in quotes because that is the only thing in that sentence I talked about. "School" is a real College or University who is nationally know (even though I am not a huge fan of the place). My degree is a Bachelor's in Science but that is as specific as I will get. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Share Posted May 20, 2011 You all hate me and think I am stupid.. Bash what you feel is a lack of intelligence. Call me a troll and figure I will get outed. Call me a bad Mom. Etc, etc , etc.. But all of you keep coming back to post over and over again! So who is the lonely, pathetic and desperate one(s) now ???? Link to post Share on other sites
BenThereDunThat Posted May 20, 2011 Share Posted May 20, 2011 Oh, I already know I'll get dinged for this but I don't care. hahahahaha....Bachelor's IN Science. Oh, Vweb...don't ever change. LMAO! Link to post Share on other sites
Author vweb1218 Posted May 20, 2011 Author Share Posted May 20, 2011 What is emotional cheating? This type of affair is often characterized by: Inappropriate emotional intimacy. The partner being unfaithful may spend inappropriate or excessive time with someone of the opposite or same gender (time not shared with the faithful partner). He or she may confide more in their new “friend” than in their partner and may share more intimate emotional feelings and secrets with their new partner than with their existing spouse. Any time that an individual invests more emotionally into a relationship with someone besides their partner the existing partnership may suffer. Deception and secrecy. Those involved may not tell their partners about the amount of time they spend with each other. An individual involved in this type of affair may, for example, tell his or her spouse that they are doing other activities when they are really meeting with someone else. Or the unfaithful spouse may exclude any mention of the other person while discussing the day’s activities to conceal the rendezvous. Even if no physical intimacy occurs, the deception clearly shows that those involved believe they are doing something wrong that undermines the existing relationship. In other words, if there was really no harm in meeting with a friend, both parties would feel comfortable telling their partners the truth about where they are meeting and what they are discussing. Increased fighting. When a person becomes emotionally involved with a third party, they may view the new person as all good and their committed partner as all bad. This person may blame their interest in the third party on their committed partner, which will lead to increased fighting and strain on the relationship.[8] An emotional triangle. One that may only be known to the unfaithful, who then struggles to keep the other two from knowing of the impact of one upon the other. Denial will likely characterize the unfaithful person's response to an invitation by their spouse to reflect on the competing demands of the relationship with the other person. Sexual and emotional chemistry. Sexual and emotional chemistry can present itself based on a physical attraction one might feel for another person. In addition, it can also be related to an increase in dopamine, a hormone that produces feelings of pleasure, and norepinephrine, which is similar to adrenaline and causes an increase in excitement. This may or may not lead to physical intimacy, however, if nurtured it may present itself. The time between the first meeting and a first kiss can often be very lengthy, but the time between the first kiss and sexual intercourse may be very short. In most of these affairs, however, an unspoken attraction exists. A partner may spend extra time getting ready before seeing this "friend" or may buy new clothing or change their appearance in order to seem attractive to them. They may obsess anticipating phone calls, emails or text messages. Denial. Denial of the presence of sexual behavior, sexuality or even of an atom of limerence. "Limerence is an involuntary cognitive and emotional state in which a person feels an intense romantic desire for another person. It is characterized by intrusive thinking and pronounced sensitivity to external events that reflect the disposition of the limerent object towards the individual." This denial can be exhibited by the cheating partner and/or the partner being cheated on, especially if the partner cheated on is male. If the cheating partner accepts that the element of sexual attraction exists, however, and physical contact starts, it can cause the current relationship to start collapsing. Betrayal. There is an implicit betrayal of values, believed to have been shared, about the sanctity of a relationship based on love, of the idea of a soulmate and of being faithful to fundamental agreements underlying intimacy, that are perceived by the spouse not involved in the affair to be a core of their committed relationship and world view. Why Is It Bad? Some may argue that since emotional affairs fall just short of physical cheating they aren’t really all that bad. But this is incorrect. Emotional affairs can hurt just as much as physical cheating and sometimes even more. When one partner replaces time, feelings, and intimacy with someone other than their partner it hurts the relationship between them and their partner. Emotional affairs involve all the lying and mistrust that physical affairs do, and their damage often takes much longer to overcome. How bad is emotional cheating? Well, how important is love to you? What bothers most people about emotional affairs is that there is intimacy, friendship, an emotional connection, and maybe even love in the affair, all of which is supposed to be reserved for your partner alone. People in relationships are more than lovers, they are best friends and sources of emotional comfort far deeper than a platonic friendship level. It can be very painful to feel replaced in this regard. Now how bad is emotional cheating compared to a physical affair? Physical cheating can often be just casual sex with no deep, emotional connection. While this is still far from a good situation, some people feel it's better than emotional infidelity. They feel somewhat comforted if there was no love or emotional intimacy involved, and it was only a physical act. These two forms of infidelity are not mutually exclusive, however. If you're suspicious of an emotional affair, be prepared for the possibility of it becoming physical. This doesn't always happen, but the emotional affair affair may be worth looking into if you have that suspicion. Emotional affairs can certainly run deeper than physical ones for many people. But the thing about them is they're easier to catch! Think about it. Text messages, phone calls, emails, etc. all leave a written record. You can get solid proof and catch your cheater! Don't let yourself get hurt anymore, click here! Link to post Share on other sites
bentnotbroken Posted May 29, 2011 Share Posted May 29, 2011 "Bachelor's In Science." LMAO! That must be a new one at Troll University. :lmao::lmao:............ Link to post Share on other sites
OldOnTheInside Posted May 29, 2011 Share Posted May 29, 2011 You're all enjoying this a bit too much. Link to post Share on other sites
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