Daaanz Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 Me and my ex have decided to start no contact for a few weeks, to see how he feels without me in his life completely, as we've both come to the conclusion he is very much taking me for granted, and I think if he has to live his life without me completely,he'll realise how much he really does love me... How do I keep up with the NC, I'm scared I'm going to cave in, but I want him to be the one to break it. Does any one have any tips? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Daaanz Posted May 19, 2011 Author Share Posted May 19, 2011 Can anyone help please? Link to post Share on other sites
Billie The Puppet Posted May 19, 2011 Share Posted May 19, 2011 How can we help you not contact the ex? All you have to do really is everytime you feel like contacting the ex come on here. I know it sounds hard but it really is simple don't phone, email or sms etc. Link to post Share on other sites
bonpaw2008 Posted May 20, 2011 Share Posted May 20, 2011 You need to take the focus off of him and put it on you. Who cares how HE feels without YOU in his life? He quit you, he doesn't deserve to have to option of keeping you on a string. Go live your life and don't give him the power to make the rules. Read all you can about NC, it is all about finding yourself again and has nothing to do with him or trying to get him to miss you. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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