tom_gbr Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 all i have to say is how can someone that you have spent the most intimate and meaningfull moments with...become a stranger in a heartbeat. i cant understand it at all Link to post Share on other sites
Miss_Prolixity Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I don't think there's really one definite answer for this. But in my personal experience, people change. Sometimes for the better, and other times for the worse. You know, this reminds me of something my ex once said. One night we were talking on the couch and he "jokingly" made a comment and said, "you know, I play the part of Jekyll and Hyde well". I really never analyzed it because at that time it held no meaning. But after we broke up, I look back and he really wasn't the person he portrayed himself to be. There's too many things that don't make sense. But when you wear rose colored glasses for too long (which I did), sometimes you don't take notice of off-the-wall things. Link to post Share on other sites
valparaiso2 Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I dont think you can say that you are strangers to each other though it feels like it. It's usally not because you dont know or respect each other that you break up, it is actually because of the opposit! When you have been very connected to a person, its just not possible always to become best friends afterwards. This however does not mean that the relationship was not worth having, it just means that you have both been hurt and it is hard to communicate further when that happens. Its sort of "nature of love" - or a part of the game. Link to post Share on other sites
sinkerswim Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 Thats a good way of putting it Valparaiso Because I also wonder why my boyfriend/fiance of 8 years, can just walk away and pretend I didnt even exist. It hurts more than anything. and Tom..keep your chin up. Link to post Share on other sites
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