ringo0206 Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I just wanted to get some input from all of you breaker upers out there on how long it took you to start talking to you ex if you did go through a period after you broke up of not talking to you ex. and also why you finally decided to get in contact with them Link to post Share on other sites
sexirubberducky13 Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 i have no will power but it took me 2 weeks to talk to him and that was iver the computer Link to post Share on other sites
valparaiso2 Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I think its very different from relationship to relationship. Sometimes you feel like having a contact again, othertimes both agree its the best option not to. If your'e the one to break up I think its appropriate to let the one you broke up with make the first contact, as this person is the one that should decide which kind of contact you two should have in the future. Link to post Share on other sites
lady104 Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 It def depends on the rel'ship. We broke up on really cool terms, although I was dumped! I went through a lot of different phases, which made me want to contact desperately and sometimes completely avoid it. Luckily, he dealt with each situation the right way. 1st contact was by e-mail cos' a mutual friend's bday was coming up and I didn't want it to be awkward between us. I might have been a bit too nice in my e-mail, but think it's best to be neutral, no kisses or affection, in ur first contact! Link to post Share on other sites
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