Is there a too soon to start liking someone???????????

[Deanna]

Well my boyfriend of 6 months well he was on parole and ended up getting a DUI so now he is in prison for 10 more months. I told him that I was not going to make any promises to him. Well about 2 weeks ago I met this guy and from the very first day I met him he has been wanting to hang out with me. After a couple of days of hanging out with him he was asking me what his chances are of being with me. Well i was thinking well what do I tell this guy i barely met him and I have this other guy in prison.

well i finally told him everything about the guy in prison and i told him i didnt want him to be a rebound. But this guy brings up " so are we going to be together. it is getting kinda frustrating and I feel guilty about my boyfriend in prison but I dont think I could wait that long. But this other guy i dont know what to think. Well is that a bas thing that he likes me alot already? I mean he hasnt tried to do anything but kiss me, he has alot of opportunities too. He told me that its different with me. The first night I met him he was like will you go home with me. I was like ummm no. He would go to where i met him hopeing that i would show up and asking people i knew how he could get a hold of me. This was like after 3 days of knowing him. He wants to hang out with me every day from the time he gets off work. I just dont know if this is normal . please help and give me some advice...........

[Fedup&givingup]

A- where is dating someone that's in prison for a DUI going to get you in life?

 

B- don't let this other guy PRESSURE you into anything with him. Make your own decisions, and do what YOU want to do for yourself. I'm guilty of this happening to me...I've been manipulated into relationships, and it is NOT worth it.

[Arabess]

I'm not sure someone on parole...now in prison....is such a keeper to begin with. Even once he gets out, he needs some time to get his sh*t straight. He's got problems.

 

It's your choice if you want to wait on him. If you like this other guy though....I think you should explore the possibilities of meeting someone with a better track record than being a jailbird.

[echocrush]

has the other guy ever been in prison, or is he the type that could be?

 

up the bar honey and go where the future is...

 

you deserve someone who will be around don't you think?