I suspect he lies about his intake.

[Vesna]

I have been friends with a man for a few years and for a lot of that time we have been inseparable. We got drunk together a lot and at the time I enjoyed it. Now I don't. I have changed, and I don't think he will, nor does he really want to.

 

He is on antipsychotics (he says he takes them) and medication to help him quit smoking. He goes through cycles of vengeful aggression in regards to events which I know never occured. He is too exhuberant for me to handle these days.

 

I am tired of this relationship. He turns up at my home, after calling first, more drunk than he lets on. Also, I am about 99% sure he is not taking his meds.

 

He has caused damage to my property in the past, which he paid for, but does not remember doing it even though I took photos of the mess he left. After a few weeks I forgave him because it was an 'episode' mixed with top shelf.

 

To cut this short, we are toxic. I am sick of hearing his delusions and his grandiose plans for the future. I am fed up to the eyeballs with his need for revenge and the details. This man is getting sicker by the day and I have to let him go for good if I am to go in the direction that I have already embarked on. Naturally, he will bring up things about me from the past and will even blame me.

 

I keep forgiving this person but now I want him out of my life. He has no other friends apart from the people he lives with in respite but soon he will be moving to a block of apartments full of sick people.

 

This is a rant and a cry for help.

[gaius]

I have been friends with a man for a few years and for a lot of that time we have been inseparable. We got drunk together a lot and at the time I enjoyed it. Now I don't. I have changed, and I don't think he will, nor does he really want to.

 

He is on antipsychotics (he says he takes them) and medication to help him quit smoking. He goes through cycles of vengeful aggression in regards to events which I know never occured. He is too exhuberant for me to handle these days.

 

I am tired of this relationship. He turns up at my home, after calling first, more drunk than he lets on. Also, I am about 99% sure he is not taking his meds.

 

He has caused damage to my property in the past, which he paid for, but does not remember doing it even though I took photos of the mess he left. After a few weeks I forgave him because it was an 'episode' mixed with top shelf.

 

To cut this short, we are toxic. I am sick of hearing his delusions and his grandiose plans for the future. I am fed up to the eyeballs with his need for revenge and the details. This man is getting sicker by the day and I have to let him go for good if I am to go in the direction that I have already embarked on. Naturally, he will bring up things about me from the past and will even blame me.

 

I keep forgiving this person but now I want him out of my life. He has no other friends apart from the people he lives with in respite but soon he will be moving to a block of apartments full of sick people.

 

This is a rant and a cry for help.

Seems like you know what needs to be done. Just hope you manage to get this very unhealthy person out of your life for good.