Allisha Posted May 27, 2011 Share Posted May 27, 2011 Weak ! lol Spill! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 27, 2011 Author Share Posted May 27, 2011 Spill! Just feeling really weak right now. I was so close to contacting the ex but I dont even know how to start off the convo anyway. Decided I should post here instead of giving in to my emotions lol. Picked up my new car tonight and this is something I would usually enjoy with my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Allisha Posted May 27, 2011 Share Posted May 27, 2011 Just feeling really weak right now. I was so close to contacting the ex but I dont even know how to start off the convo anyway. Decided I should post here instead of giving in to my emotions lol. Picked up my new car tonight and this is something I would usually enjoy with my ex. Oh! I thought you said you were weak because you gave in! Phew. What a relief. Regarding the bold bit, you need to stop doing this. You need to stop associating everything you're doing in your life with her. It'll just eat away at you if you let it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 27, 2011 Author Share Posted May 27, 2011 Broke NC..she hasnt responded but I dont regret it at this point. Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted May 27, 2011 Share Posted May 27, 2011 (edited) Dude, not good. I mean I might do the same to stand up for myself...but...I'm waiting for a damn Therapists opinion to see if giving in to my own Ego is worth it. You had her in a good spot and blew it. I hope it was indifferent, but, you may have given up your edge. However, if you have to worry about a power struggle in a relationship it obviously isn't a very good one anyways. I didn't have to in mine initially but I don't know where it derailed either. Hence...Therapy. Edited May 27, 2011 by EgoJoe Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 Dude, not good. I mean I might do the same to stand up for myself...but...I'm waiting for a damn Therapists opinion to see if giving in to my own Ego is worth it. You had her in a good spot and blew it. I hope it was indifferent, but, you may have given up your edge. However, if you have to worry about a power struggle in a relationship it obviously isn't a very good one anyways. I didn't have to in mine initially but I don't know where it derailed either. Hence...Therapy. I know what you mean but I just want to be straight up. Do you love me or not? You know? Sick of the f'n games cause she didnt respond. I'm taking that as she lied with the past text messages. Link to post Share on other sites
Mich2792 Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 My ex loves me but is not in love with me i think she is screwing around hell she is on a date right now what do you guys think Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 My ex loves me but is not in love with me i think she is screwing around hell she is on a date right now what do you guys think Well if she is on a date, what else is there to know? Link to post Share on other sites
Frank13 Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 Broke NC..she hasnt responded but I dont regret it at this point. Of course she hasn't. She was throwing out the bait to see if you would bite and you did. Now she has closure knowing she could have you if she wants. You probably won't hear from her again. Link to post Share on other sites
EgoJoe Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 It's so true. This is like a switch for some girls I guess...suddenly they realize oh **** lots of men want the middle. This is why I want to tell off my ex. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 Of course she hasn't. She was throwing out the bait to see if you would bite and you did. Now she has closure knowing she could have you if she wants. You probably won't hear from her again. I know this is true yet I'm going to tell myself its not lol. I know I F'd up my healing process:mad: Off to work now.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 It's so true. This is like a switch for some girls I guess...suddenly they realize oh **** lots of men want the middle. This is why I want to tell off my ex. Same here man. Some women can so messed up. I hope things work out for the both of us. Link to post Share on other sites
lalalandman Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 LOL I just took one look at the title of this post and wow. Dude. Bro. Compadre. Any girl who says some **** like "I'm not in love with you right now", is ****ed in the head. She obviously has NO idea what love is. Get the hell out while you can. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 LOL I just took one look at the title of this post and wow. Dude. Bro. Compadre. Any girl who says some **** like "I'm not in love with you right now", is ****ed in the head. She obviously has NO idea what love is. Get the hell out while you can. I may be even more F'd up in the head because I still love her. But if I saw her right now, my anger would get the best of me. Why cant she just be mature and pick her damn phone up and talk like a grown up. Link to post Share on other sites
bittersweet memories Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 Thanks for the replies. It is much appreciated! I'm in a really down place because I wanted to give this girl the world. I feel played. She texted me at 1am this morning.. She was probably drunk. Don't give in... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 She was probably drunk. Don't give in... I'm a little tipsy right now. Shall I call? Link to post Share on other sites
bittersweet memories Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 I'm a little tipsy right now. Shall I call? No!!!!! Well I'm assuming she never responded to your text, huh? That Bitch! Forget about her! Try!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 No!!!!! Well I'm assuming she never responded to your text, huh? That Bitch! Forget about her! Try!!! To early in this morning for this! First I had to wake up early, then my hours got cut at work. Hey, thanks for telling me when I drive all the way the hell over there. Now I had a little to much to drink. I want to call. I may drive to her house but dont want a scene to be made. Link to post Share on other sites
sinnister Posted May 29, 2011 Share Posted May 29, 2011 This is the first time I've ever seen or heard of, "I'm not in love with you right now" - very interesting, but perhaps she's trying to let you down easy. Got the same thing...before I pushed for the why...then trying to unravel the web that ended up being way more secret dates with the "replacement" than she had ever let on (they met ONCE was the story, through a friend and danced/spooned). Friend told me they had a few secret dates even away from her. OP's getting played. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 29, 2011 Author Share Posted May 29, 2011 Got the same thing...before I pushed for the why...then trying to unravel the web that ended up being way more secret dates with the "replacement" than she had ever let on (they met ONCE was the story, through a friend and danced/spooned). Friend told me they had a few secret dates even away from her. OP's getting played. I hope your right so I can take my anger out on the poor fool. Told her to never contact me again. Ball is in her court. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 29, 2011 Author Share Posted May 29, 2011 I want to talk to her so bad:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 29, 2011 Author Share Posted May 29, 2011 Started a new thread but that was stupid! Anyway, got a text saying she needs to get this out of her system before she can be with me %100. What exactly that is, idk? Link to post Share on other sites
sinnister Posted May 29, 2011 Share Posted May 29, 2011 Started a new thread but that was stupid! Anyway, got a text saying she needs to get this out of her system before she can be with me %100. What exactly that is, idk? Means she has to bang another guy or two...she wants to feel free, since she put you under lockdown and didn't think you'd be able to do it...some girls beg for failure so they can cheat w/o losing u..she loves you, but is internally a slut. She has to get it from somewhere else to feel alive..so if she must hurt u first, she'd make up anything..or in this case just orchestrate drama to do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Fedor Posted May 29, 2011 Author Share Posted May 29, 2011 Means she has to bang another guy or two...she wants to feel free, since she put you under lockdown and didn't think you'd be able to do it...some girls beg for failure so they can cheat w/o losing u..she loves you, but is internally a slut. She has to get it from somewhere else to feel alive..so if she must hurt u first, she'd make up anything..or in this case just orchestrate drama to do it. If I find out she is nailing other dudes you probably wont see me on this site for a few years cause I'll be in jail. And damn, the sex was at its best toward the very end of the relationship. I hope you are wrong Sinnister but I will take your opinion into account. She said she would want to be together forever once she gets things worked out though so idk! Link to post Share on other sites
sinnister Posted May 29, 2011 Share Posted May 29, 2011 Weak women eventually turn you into caring people...then even if you're still alpha..there's just no excitement...you're routine. Real women r nesters, and seek someone they can understand, understand them n be secure. Weak women r always looking for the better deal AND want what the nesters have. These two r broad so don't hate women about the real women=nesters, it's just how they think/what they value in a r/s. Weak women turn a dude into a chick by nagging, playing, just training...you care for all of their needs, then they run off to find some excitement, citing the weakest crisis you can have. Can't stress this enough, if you haven't done anything wrong in the r/s and your girl is acting flaky...if she doesn't tell you that she thinks you're cheating on her, she is an internal slut. Girls only break up for 3 reasons...1. they have career-stuff to do and ure being an asshat and slowing that down, which means when you shape up you're still the first on the list for reconciliation (carrots n sticks approach),2. you've either cheated or she suspects you of cheating with what she considers valid intel..or you've alluded to cheating one too many times, 3. she wants her freedom, which means the r/s has b/c stale/routine or she was a slut that nested in you to try to find what she thought she was missing..you gave the support she wanted and now she has to ramble on-this is not normal woman behavior, as a good man is hard to find..but the new FB generation makes shopping for your replacement easy...if your girl was/is a borderline slut...you will get drama b/f she leaves. It must be about her, and she must make it about what you've done wrong b/f she gets away with destroying your pride. Watch, listen to her stories about her friends...if too many sound like sluts..she will be one..no matter what she says. Link to post Share on other sites
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