brelynnda Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 Hello Everyone it's been a while......I am posting in the yes..OW section. I am the other woman, and yes I know 99.75% of you hate me. This is for that .25% that will give their opinion without casting judgment. I was wondering about any OW relationships that started out as the OW and our now the GF or wife. My OM has left his wife, as i have left my husband. We both had problems at home before we started seeing each other.I don't want to be rebound girl, but since we are both still married ( divorces pending) how long do I wait to start dating???? I really like this guy, maybe when you are so unhappy at home you realize how wonderful it is to have someone listen to you and have fun.But I don't want people to get the idea that I was seeing him and that caused my breakup. Is there a timeline that i should abide by? I am not saying i'm going to move in with him , but how long until we can say see each other as more than friends? His wife has started a relationship he thinks was going on before the break-up but as far as I know my husband has not. By the way in case you are wondering, my marriage is over, I will not be going back. But yes technically we are both still married. Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 Reminds me of Carmella. If you're in a local environment in which people will get the wrong idea (or the right idea, from what it sounds like) of the nature of your seperation and relationship, either wait until the divorce is final, or have fun outside the local area. If you're discreet about it, why is it anyone's business? Link to post Share on other sites
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