jrsmum Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Hi, Me and my H are having marriage problems, we dont resolve conflict and don't work really work well together under stressful times. We have an 8mnth old and things have gotten a little worse since he entered the world. We have been to marriage counselling twice and everytime we fight or Im in a bad mood my H says "Everythings ruined, this is why I want to leave, you'll never change etc. I will admit ive got my own issues jealousy, insecurities and have slight depression. Tonigh I told him that if he wants to leave then maybe he needs to start looking around as it hurts me that he continually wants to leave etc. The thing is I know that he won't leave and it upsets me so much that he keeps saying hes going to, it just confirms what a **** wife I must be to make him that unhappy. After a day or so when we aren't fighting we are so happy and get along really wellbut as soon as we have an argument he says this. What do I do about it? Link to post Share on other sites
DunkinSheek Posted May 22, 2011 Share Posted May 22, 2011 Do you have family to lean on or move in with? Have you considered meds for your depression? Do you know the source of your insecurity? Sorry. Just trying to get a little more information. Link to post Share on other sites
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