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So...what's your goal here?

 

Divorce?

 

Reconciliation?

 

What are YOU working to accomplish in this situation?

 

I see updates with a lot of strife and disagreemant in them...but I don't see updates that indicate to me that YOU are working towards reconciling the marriage, or divorcing her.

 

Get a goal in mind. Develop a plan to reach that goal. Implement your plan.

 

This is new area for me my experience is not with side of the marriage or how the end process is. I don't have family I can turn too. I came to see what you all think and share your knowledge.

Well I was trying to save the marriage which was my goal as with any couple that wants it to work! What I had is not how I had planned it to turn out in the end now.

 

Just getting a call from her a while of ago is just trouble some. Saying a SIMPLE YES OR NO TO ME QUESTION! DID YOU BUY ME A BIRTHDAY CAKE! Now why would I after all of this nonsense she has put me through. This behavior from her like we on and off again. Sure I did buy her cakes in the past but right now I am not feeling like a happy camper to buy anything for her why should I!

 

My entire life is on the line here sure why would it be? But now I have to change my life again. I did it once for her to come here knowing that I had no family or friends in this town. I left everyone behind just to be with her. This is her home turf again and not mine.

 

I hope you can understand that. Very heartbroken experience to love someone and now it's ended.

 

Once close friend is so far away but he told me GET OUT! He has never experience the Big D too so hard for him to give any advise. This area was never really explained in my family we're taught that marriage was a golden and each side should respect the other to keep the marriage going forever. Now that's gone with her new ways of living. I am not in this kinky stuff or spinners life style.

 

Just not me...

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Close friend just text me saying SHE'S HER FATHER'S DAUGHTER mean's what he does she's doing to me. As he was a player to father over 15 different kids by so many different women. It's a shame she had high goals and wasn't like that, but now seems she is. To me the most important thing I wanted was kids. And now I have learn that was a lie too as she didn't want to have kids by me.. So curl of a statement..

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I just wanted to share my experiences here to maybe help someone like here who might run into the same real life situations that's not the norm. Everyone has a different way of living their lives.

 

Right now I had a good wall-up to keep my emotions held back. I know that's not good but I can't show how I feel. It's breaking down now. I must think about other things to keep it back up! Right now I can't let my guard down. She's just destroying everything around me and here...

 

The second dog we have I am afraid of what will happen to him. She had mentioned that one of her gf had two dogs and then she had a baby. The dog acted weird about the baby. They had to get rid of her. So I don't want her to do the same for our second dog. But I can't have two to them where I am going.

 

He couldn't even take the two dogs out this morning before she had left for work She wasn't even going in early. What a shame.

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The wife came home after around 2am and didn't say a word to me. So I guess she's really mad at me. But again I would have kept my mouth shut about our business. But this is how she is. Tells everyone (family and friends) our business except for me. I am always the last one to know anything she has planned or is doing!. Well I am standing for myself now and she doesn't like it! That's another issue I have with her.

 

What had happen yesterday now changes things in a different direction. Feels odd but that was the first time I was not with her for her birthday and next year I won't be around her. But in all she really doesn't care if I am there now or then she got herself, family and friends which are more important than little old me! :(

 

I'll keep you posted as always...

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I haven't seen the wife since 2am on Friday morning. Around 12:20pm today I get a call saying "HEY YOU NEED ANYTHING AT THE STORE" Now she's talking again. I told her some things to get. She comes back ever so nice, but that was a front though.

 

Once I got downstairs she walking around in new saddles dressed in black likes she's on top of world. Then the she says "SEE I GOT YOU ALL YOUR FAVORITES ITEMS AND YOUR NOT NICE! YOUR STILL AN AXX! I said what did you say! YOUR AN AXX!

 

You have no right call me that! YOUR AN AXX! YOU COULDN'T TAKE ME OUT FOR MY BIRTHDAY OR BUY ME ANYTHING FOR MY BIRTHDAY SUCH CHEAP AXX! I completely blanked her out. She wanted to start something with me as you can see. The name calling (verbal abuse) is common place for her to act so mighty. She walked out the door and going on saying I might not come home tonight! I'll see you tomorrow! I said just for fun! Hey don't you want to see that movie from TP? So now you want to take me to the movies! No watch here on Netflix. She's got really mad! You can't take me out on my Birthday because you were being such An AXX.

 

I closed the door on her while she kept on going.. No sense to even talk to her. But you see she's still mad inside. But trying to make her sound like she's the nice person and not me. But she forgets what she's destroying things. To me it's like I am living in a bad alternated reality paradox.

 

If I stand up for myself and speak out she doesn't like it! Yes the Birthday was a bad time for her and me but I couldn't go as she had her bf, his wife and two kids there. Knowing that he knew my business, would make me feel worst. I have pride and not fair but again the wife doesn't see it like that so she made her cake and just have to eat it being selfish and uncaring.

 

Most of you here just would leave the wife or kick her out. But since she owns this house, I am not leaving it until I am ready and packed up to go. Next month I am gone or in a few weeks. When I go the electric will be turned off. So you'll stay at her parents house. I guess the way things are going she have mom, dad, her two older brothers help her or do the packing up for her.

 

As she hasn't even started to help me look in the boxes that are 5 years old now. We had stuff in private storage mostly wedding stuff not much and boxes which were her and some where mine. That gone, because she failed to pay the $120 a month rent. I told her that was a bad idea as we have plenty of space here. Why spend over $1,000 a year for storage. Doesn't make sense. First she was paying that bill and some how I started paying it. Then I told her you have to pay it or move the stuff out. But she didn't want too listen.

 

So that stuff is gone..

 

As for her she's said she's going to her parents. Funny she doesn't smell like tobacco her dad smokes like crazy and if you go there you would smell like tobacco from your hair right now to your clothes you have on. I couldn't stand it I don't even smoke. He smokes everything. Her mom is a drunk (beer and BJ) always faking her chest pains. One day it wasn't a fake but no one would go to the hospital to see her. I was there. But you see they don't see it as that.

 

Anyway I'll let you know what happen's next..

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4:40AM the dogs are barking I could hear a door slam shut. It's her. I've turned off the outdoor spot lights, well she's never comes home and they odd hours she stays out late. So I open the door didn't even look at her nor say anything. She always says hi to the dogs and not me anyway.

 

I'll keep you all posted to what happen's next!

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Today was odd one as she been here all day. Name calling continues. But I've step up to the plate and gone after her telling her there is no need for that behavior get real! No need for me to start calling her names just not me. So that's has stopped. For now.. She still leaving food boxes and such around. She is so messy and needs to throw that into the trash. I am not picking up from her. Of course I'll have to do it as I live here too.

 

Again another weekend wasted as she could have help me go through the boxes that have been here 5 years un-packed. Nope not her. Just sitting there watching cars speed at 200mph around a track for over 200 laps.

 

It seems normal but's it not! It's just make believe until the end day comes!

 

I'll keep you updated!

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During the day yesterday she had IM open many on your laptop but always seems to close them down if you has to go to the bathroom. Her cell phone ran yesterday and she was talking with someone. I was in the same room where she had decided to get up and go to the MBR to talk more. Later in the I was wondering who that was. But anyway I was tired and headed up to the MBR. She was on the cell phone again. I did ask her who were you talking to at 12:30am. She said in a soft tone it was none of your business. Around 1:20am she was still on the cell phone. I had ask her you still on the phone she said yes.

 

I know she wasn't talking to a gf friend otherwise it would be crazy girl talk. It has to be a man because she was talking like he was the best conversation she had. So way for me to trace the call since she has stopped using the home phone. What I could have gathered is that whoever he is must be something she likes.

 

My question she going about her business, it's like I am not around or count. I made dinner yesterday I told her it was ready. I wasn't going to make her a plate like I use too. She had to do it herself.

 

Having her home on Sunday wasn't that great, all she did was complain about the way the house looks. I told her duh packing and moving. Not going to look clean. I am not cleaning anything. She needs to do that if she wants.

 

She can't even give the dogs water or feed them. She just eats and eats. Since I've been with her she has put a lot of weight and is heavy than me. I don't know how she does it.

 

Anyway I have setup all bills to be paid by her under her name since the bills are in her name. Only fair for her to pay since she's hasn't paid the Bank for the house. That Bank is pushing that Cert-Mail here like crazy. I am not signing for anything that's not in my name. Let her deal with it. I am out it!

 

There was a comment from her yesterday and I had answered you carry my last name but she say not anymore soon.

 

I am out here in 3 weeks since the Holiday is coming I have to plan around it. last year fireworks this year none.

 

Since all the rain we have gotten the grass is so tall, and I don't care to mow it and why should I! Just let it grow and grow..

 

Let you know what happens next...

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A letter came for the Wife yesterday or a few days ago. I haven't check the mail too often, but anyway. It said CLINICAL LABORATORY on it. So that means she had a test done? What type of test was done was the question?

 

She didn't get back home until 2am. I told her you have a bunch of mail and some important ones to check over. The Bank gave her 60 days to pay the Bill on the house some $5,000 and will tap on any interest to that. Things will get messy around here in August. I'll be gone in July... After readying what she had open from the CL really has set me off!

 

I don't get mad too much but I should have seen this coming. Now I really don't want to talk to here or be nice any more. She's really done it this time.

 

Looking up what was posted on the invoice I see she has been having....

 

UNPROTECTED SEX and looks like some SEXUAL TRANSMITTED something or other was detected or not? I am not too good with the technical jargon with medical codes, this is not my background.

 

SHE IS A HUGE LIAR! LIAR! LIAR! I REALLY HATE HER! :mad:

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Sorry to hear that man. Sounds like you have quite a mess on your hands. You need to get away from this woman that is for sure! She is clearly cheating and could not care less.

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how could you not see she has been cheating? i hope you haven't had sex with her.

 

she shows the behavior of a drug user. clearly you see that, yes?

 

al anon may help - you need to see things clearly and get help.

 

 

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Sorry to hear that man. Sounds like you have quite a mess on your hands. You need to get away from this woman that is for sure! She is clearly cheating and could not care less.

 

Makes me mad when I think about it! How could she do this.. This stuff is really bad too. I am not effected by it though. No contact with here in that department as she makes sex fell dirty prior to this stuff. She smells never use that Eve stuff, but lately she using it! This really a subject I really don't talk about too much.

 

But thinking what she's doing with other men is troubling and such. The big issue is that she can get sick from doing it. Why unprotected SEX that means either tubes are tied, on some sort of pill or she's real stupid?

 

I not going near her at all.

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how could you not see she has been cheating? i hope you haven't had sex with her.

 

she shows the behavior of a drug user. clearly you see that, yes?

 

al anon may help - you need to see things clearly and get help.

 

 

hugs

 

 

I live a complex life, and really I use to watch her 24/7 but can't. On Friday's she started this girls night out. Then that grew into something else now. Girls and Men night out or weekend swing party. I really don't know what she's doing but what I've learn from this forum it's not a good sign.

 

I need to pay attention to my dreams and visions because this stuff is coming out like I had seen prior. I don't know what's going to happen next and now she's home early.

 

I was prepping the two cars I own. I wanted to sell both of them and buy a new SUV then rent a trailer and take down what I can. Can't take everything.

Right way she starts into me yelling about the boxes. What I am suppose to do with them. She said if you don't clean up the place then she'll have to pay for cleaners to come in and clean. Good do it!

 

I am not cleaning this place! Everything I do on my own here. Grass is high and I am not taking care of it! Dogs and me I'll take care of no one else.

 

She can rot after that letter from Clinic Lab! Dirty Women the shame of her to bring that into this house.

 

I can't wait to leave this zoo with her.

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Not getting any better here... Very uncomfortable. I have to sleep in the same bed. I have to keep away from here though in that bed. Good thing it's CA-King as a queen or full would be tight. She has covered the bed cover into two different covers. Because when I sleep I pull off the spouse covers. So she wanted her own comfortable. I see how handy that has come into play now.

 

Starting last-night I had am spraying with Lysol Spray around the bathroom area not I feel weird with this Clinic LAB reports she had one. I see she'll never tell me about it. Nor that the bank collection is only giving her 60 days. Which would end in August. What a heck of the way to live now. I never signed up for this and all I wanted was to be loved by someone who loved me. Was that too much to asked! Now I don't have that with her. I call her now the woman! Not the wife. Won't give her that title again.

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She had brought home a bottle of wine that has SEXY BXXCH on the lablel I never heard of such a Red wine. It's very strong for wine. Too! Looking it up online I can't find such a lablel. I wonder if it's homemade type.

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how could you not see she has been cheating? i hope you haven't had sex with her.

 

she shows the behavior of a drug user. clearly you see that, yes?

 

al anon may help - you need to see things clearly and get help.

 

 

hugs

 

why are you avoiding what the reality is here?

 

she is a druggy. you seem to avoid addressing what evidence is real.

 

get out. asap. like in - TODAY! getting away from her negative behavior/actions and influence will surely help to gain some clarity... the sooner, the better.

 

and be honest with her. no need to hide the truth. give it to her. hey, i understand that you are sleeping around - putting your life at risk - and drinking/using... i'm not willing to be around a gal that has those negative things happening in her life.

 

no argument = just a simple statement designed to state the obvious without a fight... it simply tells HER what YOU aren't going to be putting up with/going along with anymore.

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So this is my wife Schedule:

 

Mon - Dinner at the parents (as her mom cooks for her)

Tues - Lunch at her parents (as her mom cooks for her)

Wed - thru Thurs she's here I do the cooking

Fri - Dinner at the parents again Also dinner at the parents even on Wed

Fri - Girls night out (a bunch of women drinking and such) Now I had one to one of these parties because the women hosting it her husband was helping them with food and such. He told me he didn't mine doing that. It was fun but I don't want to go there every Friday night to hang out with them.

 

I am assuming that 13 years, you have kids right?

 

If so, keep making a log. you can show her to be an absentee parent who cares more about partying and leaving the kids with you. You can show you are actually the one that takes care of them.

 

but again, not clear as to if you have kids, unless I glossed over that.

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How can you two say she's a druggy? I don't see that. But what I do see is she's not paying her vehicle payments. She now owns $1,535 and I know that company won't keep the Repo man from coming to take it away. That's her vehicle and she has kept up the cost of such a vehicle . Interest Rate was 15% so she pays $500 an something a month. She blames me for her getting such a vehicle but what she doesn't say I have saved her $7,000 on such a vehicle.

 

They were over charging her by over $40,000 that's way too much. I am a person who really don't get upset but the F-Manager at the dealer was a jerk. They had to calm me down. So the G-Manager had step in. He had teared up the sale contract. I told the wife at the time let's go. She said no, she want the vehicle. So it was $7,000 less now.

 

Today I don't get any credit all she wants to do is curse like a trucker driver. Her family from her mom, dad, two brothers on her mom side and the 13 step brothers/sister on the dad side are just the same. I wish I had know 13 years ago as I wouldn't have put my self in such a situation today..

 

You can't talk her she won't listen. When it comes to bills she the worst person that I know that doesn't keep her checking account balanced. I had her manage the electric bill. I had taken a sleep one day with the AC on. 4 hrs later there wasn't any power. They told me on the phone I had owned over $700 bucks. I said what! How can that be. They told me it hasn't been paid in 4 months. I call the wife at her job and conference into the call. She was not help at all.

 

So I've taken on that bill and all the household bills. But it's not fair is she doesn't put in.

 

So now after everything she's still doing whatever she wants and you can't tell her to stop. Tomorrow she looks at her new place before she moves in. I won't be going with her. Why should I as she told me she doesn't want to be in the same room, but yet we sleep in the same bed. If I change the channels on the cable box she gets mad. Too selfish but wants to be treated like a Queen.

 

Frankly it's best not to talk to her. She tells me I start a fight. But I don't I am just standing up for myself. I don't like to be yelled or cursed at. No one does. I tell her to stop cursing she said what FxxxKer I curse you out. See that's what makes her fell powerful. Then she'll say whatever.

 

I wonder if she's on drugs now. The lab test results is very unsettling to me. I can't get that out of my head. Tonight she's not here. Who knows with her and doing what knows with who. If I ask her who's that on the phone with you she'll say NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS! A friend called to check on me yesterday she had picked up the phone. You can it clicked. I said I am the phone get it off it. Listen M-FxxxKer I am not on the FxxxK phone. The cursing and the friend hears her swearing.

 

The friend can't believe what's going on with her and me. He never heard of such things I've told him about. I ask him you told your wife about what's going with me and my wife. He told me he didn't want to. Everyone he know is ending up in some sort of Break-up.

 

Well I guess it's a trend now..

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why are you avoiding what the reality is here?

 

she is a druggy. you seem to avoid addressing what evidence is real.

 

get out. asap. like in - TODAY! getting away from her negative behavior/actions and influence will surely help to gain some clarity... the sooner, the better.

 

and be honest with her. no need to hide the truth. give it to her. hey, i understand that you are sleeping around - putting your life at risk - and drinking/using... i'm not willing to be around a gal that has those negative things happening in her life.

 

no argument = just a simple statement designed to state the obvious without a fight... it simply tells HER what YOU aren't going to be putting up with/going along with anymore.

 

I did! And she said WHATEVER!

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so - did she move out? no need to wait... she should be out today... place to stay or not - it is no longer hers to decide.

 

and yes, she's showing druggy behavior.

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so - did she move out? no need to wait... she should be out today... place to stay or not - it is no longer hers to decide.

 

and yes, she's showing druggy behavior.

 

No! Remember it's her house it's under her name. I never signed anything so it's her issue. But read the next post...

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I been very busy testing out vehicles to replace the two I have here. I just sold yesterday one of my cars myself. Place it on the internet and less than 30 mins someone was interested in it. I see the wife of this couple was calling and the husband shows up. But I take care of my vehicles and they could see it so much they came back later in the evening with the cash in hand to buy it! Now it's gone. Now next vehicle...

 

But the later in the afternoon I found out what the wife been doing since 2010 under my nose. I feel so upset but still managed to sell the car doing this. But you know I got to think about myself and not her anymore. It's about me now not her!

 

So this is what I found out. I had gone to her PC and use Yahoo Reader to unlock her user name and see what she has been typing. I was so shock to learn that she has over 20 buddies on her list! They're all men with dirty rotten SEX habit! She's no better then them. I did see some mention of me. I'll share that was said..

 

THE GUY (4:19:09 AM): Hi....didn't know until now that you had IM me.

THE WIFE (4:19:30 AM): hello

THE WIFE (4:19:39 AM): i sent u an email on aff letting u know..

THE WIFE (4:19:42 AM): no worries

THE GUY (4:20:54 AM): You did....after I sent the last message I came over to yahoo to see if you were here, but saw nothing...then the phone rang....bro. calling me from Florida. I just hung up the phone.

THE GUY (4:22:21 AM): So, you will be out until 1:00am tomorrow? what? partying? :-)

THE WIFE (4:32:42 AM): lol

THE WIFE (4:32:53 AM): no worries

THE WIFE (4:33:01 AM): going out with my gf's

THE GUY (4:33:48 AM): Oh, so a fun night. How are you able to get time away from the husband?

THE WIFE (4:38:02 AM): well we're in midst of separation so that won't be an issue anymore

THE WIFE (4:38:09 AM): but i go out when i want and come in when i want

THE GUY (4:39:30 AM): Okay....

THE WIFE (4:40:54 AM): so when do u get out?

THE WIFE (4:41:00 AM): and how often do u have fun?

THE GUY (4:41:04 AM): So, when you get home tomorrow night, or when you're on your way home, if you decide that you want to meet me some place

THE WIFE (4:41:06 AM): i'm XXX by the way

THE WIFE (4:41:25 AM): if u want we could meet for drinks....

THE GUY (4:41:59 AM): I get out occasionally...and have fun whenever I can.

THE GUY (4:43:36 AM): XXXl....I'm not really a drinker. My limit is one (sometimes two...but most times one) So, if you're meeting your gf's, I'd just be in the way...and at 1:00am I guess the bars are still open. We could meet somewhere if you want.

THE WIFE (4:44:53 AM): lol..ok let me clarify

THE WIFE (4:45:14 AM): i'm not meeting my friends till 9:30

THE WIFE (4:45:21 AM): was thinking coffee bar...lol

THE WIFE (4:45:38 AM): i drink socially but i also have my limits

THE GUY (4:48:21 AM): Oh, see I thought you were working, then coming home, getting ready and going to meet your gf's. Now you say you won't meet them until 9:30. Well, I should be home tomorrow around 5pm. So, you wanna e-mail me tomorrow and let's see if we can hook up for coffee before you meet your gf's?

THE WIFE (4:49:09 AM): i won't go home tomorrow after work...will go to parents, chill for a little and go from there..

THE WIFE (4:49:24 AM): we don't have to do anything tomorrow...lol...no rush or pressure

THE WIFE (4:49:32 AM): and i still require a name and pic

THE WIFE (4:49:58 AM): and if its after we can meet at Denny's

THE WIFE (4:50:08 AM): the show ends around midnite

THE GUY (4:50:44 AM): I know we don't have to do anything, but it would be nice to break the ice...

THE GUY (4:51:00 AM): Where is this show? TOWN2?

THE WIFE (4:51:50 AM): TOWN3

THE GUY (4:52:48 AM): Oh! Okay...well, are you in TOWN3 or TOWN1?

THE WIFE (4:53:32 AM): i live n TOWN1 but going to comedy club n TOWN3

THE GUY (4:55:17 AM): Oh, okay...should be nice...I went two weeks ago. Okay. if you go to your parents and chill with them, will you still be in TOWN1 or some place else? and where is the nearest coffee place from your parents?

THE WIFE (4:56:49 AM): i like to meet at it's a grind in TOWN4

THE GUY (4:58:39 AM): don't know where that is....is it near XXX's?

THE WIFE (4:58:59 AM): yeppers...right across the street in same plaza as friendly's

THE GUY (5:02:39 AM): Okay, then when you finish chillin' with moms & pops, call me to see if I'm home, and if so we can decide if we're gonna meet at It's a Grind. be nice to see you and have you see me...and try not to look too too sexy...don't want ya boy driving off the road on the way back home thinking about you (smiling)

THE WIFE (5:03:20 AM): my cell is XXX-XXX-XXXX

THE WIFE (5:03:39 AM): i still need a name and pic b4 i meet

THE WIFE (5:05:46 AM): well u have my number..

THE WIFE (5:05:48 AM): nite hon

 

So this was the latest one from 6/11 I had found. Most of them are like this. I's not what I had expected from her. As you can clearly see she's just doing whatever she wants with strange men. These men seem to be married as well or some are single. They have money though. Sounds like the WIFE has turned into some sort of SWINGER OR BAR FLY GIRL.

 

I really don't see how she can live with herself and still continue as nothing is going on. But with the above you can all see what the heck she's doing.

 

So she's having all these sex acts played out behind my back. The above is now stored for proof or anything she tries to say she's not doing. I have the Clinic LAB and other stuff now. I can take my own life into my hands and pull out of this madness. What bothers me the most is that she don't care about me nor anyone except her! Her parents and anyone are okay with what's going on too. But I see how everything is now.

 

There is one IM that talks about SuperBowl Sex Hotel Party. She was pulling men off the internet to go to that one. I feel sick in my stomach that's doing this. I see why the bills are not getting paid all the money is going into this SEX HABIT of hers. Drinking an such. Drugs I don't know if such an act is taking place. I for one can't stand what's going on around me. Worst time of my life to be in. One minute everything is okay next this happens. So MEN DON'T LET YOUR WIFE GO TO GIRLS NIGHT OUT as if she does she might never be the same wife you had known!

 

AS FOR ME! WHY ME! OH WHY ME! SUCH A LIAR I HAVE BEEN WITH SUCH DREAMS AND HOPES ARE GONE!...:lmao:

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get out! to stay is crazy. to sleep in the same bed is ridiculous. you have choices - choose to walk away. she's a tramp.

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get out! to stay is crazy. to sleep in the same bed is ridiculous. you have choices - choose to walk away. she's a tramp.

 

I haven't been in that bed although is a soft bed but her is nasty and the Clinic Lab test issue makes you wonder what she's doing. But now that IM and the rest confirm it. I have love sofa in my office but too small to sleep on.

 

As for getting out I have to sell my assets prior to leaving. I going to fo-go a trailer and just take my systems HDTVs, audio system with me along with clothes. Vehicle I'll see what I can get and I don't care if she doesn't like it or not I'll start on her if she starts complaining and say IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.

 

She's more than a tramp though dirty slut. I am not going to wash her clothes anymore she can do that herself! To have to deal with the scent of other men on her clothes make me sick to even handle her stuff.

 

By this week I should know if I can leave the 3rd week.

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Windsurf66

Seriously, i dun see anything wrong with what she is doing.

 

She is a whore right and behaving like one? :)

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