jaymz Posted July 13, 2011 Posted July 13, 2011 Can you have your post re-directed? If all you are waiting for is papers to be delivered then I would get the re-direct setup and then leave her to it. I have my post re-directed, it cost £17 for 3 months.
Author coolheadal Posted July 13, 2011 Author Posted July 13, 2011 (edited) Can you have your post re-directed? If all you are waiting for is papers to be delivered then I would get the re-direct setup and then leave her to it. I have my post re-directed, it cost £17 for 3 months. Vehicle titling and registration has to be done out of area. Local license agent not available nor will the dealership use them again. I wish I had known because the process would have taken just 3 days to complete! I would have been gone by now! I have to wait until the process is completed and paper FedEx to the dealer. So in the meantime the wife from hell is stamping her feet around me.. As for the dumpster I'll use our joint checking account to write a check. I did find that the other day when I was packing up my stuff. Both names are on that account. I did pull out my funds well most of it. That account is what's been paying her bills. Now it will pay for the dumpster she had ordered for. Again never letting me know about this stuff just do what she wants. That's one of our problem with her she won't tell me anything. Again she's telling me everything is mine here but it's not. It's just a mess with her and how she thinks. There is 3x dressers and bedding that needs to go, but I am not putting that in that dumpster on my own. She needs to get her brothers involved or hire someone. I not going to pull my back for her to clean out this house. Then she told me she will send all the stuff to my other house, she's nuts! Just leave it here or call Free Cycle to have to come and pick it up when your ready to pull out. I'll be gone before then I hope. I am just waiting for the end to come... Edited July 13, 2011 by coolheadal
Author coolheadal Posted July 13, 2011 Author Posted July 13, 2011 Strange no dumpster had shown-up today? So what the heck is she playing at?
Author coolheadal Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Day-2 No Dumpster still. The wife didn't come home last night until 2am I see another Comedy-Club Drink glass has appeared in the kitchen sink. So she's been out again on another lover dinner and club show date event night again. There has been no verbal communication with me and her. This is good. I did use one of her moving totes to clear off the kitchen counter. I need to know what's going on there. She had dump a lot of empty soda bottles and Mcdees. Again this women won't throw anything in the trash. I had thought I had some good news to tell today, but I did get a call around 9pm last night from the dealer prep crew girl she told me my new SUV was ready. But I had asked her what about the title and DMV stuff. Of course she didn't have a clue about that. So she and the sales guy I have to let me know later today or tomorrow. One more add-on has to be installed. One of my next door neighbor was asking me if I was still going. I told her yes! I can't live with a cheater plus other things too. The wife told me I don't do anything around the house. The neighbor said yes you do and she your wife never comes out to do anything. We never see her do anything except for you. I gave her some stuff I had her for free.. Best to give to her and in return she told me if I need help her husband will be more than willing. That's good to know! I really hope to get good news that the vehicle is ready for pickup...? If so I can pull out this Monday coming..
Author coolheadal Posted July 14, 2011 Author Posted July 14, 2011 Ya! Hoo! I was clearing out the garage of boxes to see what goes and or get burnt! Then got the call this evening saying that the New SUV is ready with all the papers came in today I am told. Tomorrow I'll picked it up! I am out of this nightmare on Monday.. I got to start making phone calls and such so I can get out of this town. I feel better now.. As always I'll let you know what happens next!
Author coolheadal Posted July 15, 2011 Author Posted July 15, 2011 (edited) In hour I go pickup my new SUV for the move out of the town on Monday. Last night was the first night I couldn't sleep. The wife is so nasty and really rude. She comes home at 9pm and it's nothing but issues with her. When are you going! What are you still here and on an on! I Told her Monday! She said why I couldn't leave on Friday! Then last night she's talking to this guy on her cell phone. I know it's a guy and the talking is so nice. I told her take it down stairs. Who's this guy calling at 1am. But really this is her deal. She as a dumpster coming today and she's paying for it. The Bank going to place a sign up front on the house today! She said! As you can see she waits to the last minute to let me know. Her family is ready to come help her (more do the work she suppose to do) throw the stuff into the dumpster. But they're not coming here until I leave. Well that's good for them. I've tried to sell some stuff but no takers. So I'll just give them away like I did yesterday. Of course the Wife is mad and trying to stop me. Those are mine I can do what I want with them. I rather give to to friends then let her nutty family have them. I got to put in a request to turn off the power here. Funny how she first said she was going to live with her parents and now she's staying here until the end which is next Month she has to go by the 14th before the end date on 22nd. I am gone in 4 days.. Edited July 15, 2011 by coolheadal
Author coolheadal Posted July 15, 2011 Author Posted July 15, 2011 Well got the SUV, and I see the dumpster finally came here! Wow it's bigger then a school bus. What the heck was she thinking? She's telling me I need to give her money for it. I told her you need to take that up with the bank. I don't know why she and the bank agreed to her to foot the bill of such dumpster! If your giving the house back to the bank and all that interest you have to give them so far up to this point why are you going to pay for stuff you don't want. Anyway I need to focus on moving. I've already taken care of closing out accounts and letting the electric company know what's the deal. So that's done mail transfer to new address that's should be it. If anything new changes I'll let you know..
FreeNow Posted July 16, 2011 Posted July 16, 2011 Have a safe journey. I've been following your story here and am glad that you're getting out. You have my sympathies and congratulations!
Author coolheadal Posted July 17, 2011 Author Posted July 17, 2011 (edited) Thanks I will! So dealing with stuff to pack-up has taken longer than I thought it would be.. I am still pulling thing and packing them up. Can't take everything but just what's major. She's telling me she needs to check what I am packing! That's BS! I don't need you to tell me what I can or cannot take. She was here Saturday (and Friday was our wedding anniversary) for the first time I had forgot! With all that's happening I couldn't think about it! She knew it and told me she would have gone out for drinks but not with me. Another put down again with her to me. She was on a roll yesterday. Before she left you she said you wanted me to say something about your vehicle I am not saying anything but this "IT LOOKS UGLY" She is so rude, mean and that's how she's going to play her hand. Told me to buy her things am taking. She's NUTS! I am not doing anything like that. I have the Car Insurance in her name so come September she'll have another huge payment to deal with. She's told me she was dropping me off the join account. I said no problem with that one do what you want there. I don't have any money in that account. She acted like I never put many in there. I had place almost $60,000 since 2006 to up to now to help pay the Mortgage and bills. What has she put in is less than $30,000. But now I know what she's been doing with all the money in the joint when she doesn't pay the MRT. Out on a spending spree. I've notice she's been hiding bags of dress and expensive Bath Works stuff. Still never uses the stuff. She told me yesterday she likes to shop! I can see that! Well anyway one more thing she told me she feels bad for starting all of this up. She blames me because she wanted someone to keep the house clean so she didn't want to do it. BS I kept it clean but it should be 50/50 not 99/1 which it was. Too much for me on my own to pickup from someone who had dirty habits. She still is doing it and I just cleaned off the kitchen counter and sure enough it full again! I am not doing anything more. I told her to clean her home laundry and got upset about it she did! Too bad! As for the dumpster she still wants me to pay for it I am not.. She again told me all my gear that I leave behind she'll send it down to me. I said BS and it's not going to happen, just deal with it! So as you can see been crazy.. She ask me are you going to sign the papers I told her right I am focus to get out than to deal with her BS. She now agrees on separation but I don't see that working after knowing there are now several men in her life she having fun with. She again just said they're just friends. Friends with benefits I say.. Well this will be my last post until I settle back in to my own house. Everyone thanks for your help and listening to my story with the so call wife I have here in this town. But things like this do happen in the real. I hope what I've share helps those are getting into the mess also. One more thing I'll let you know how all of this ends up in the up coming weeks or month. I don't think this story will end soon. As for her she taken over the electric bill it's in her name now. I feel she's either going to stay here, but I can't see that happening or she'll take that new place her job. She has to leave her by 14th and this house needs to be empty by 22nd of August. One of our neighbors has moved out too seems to be a pattern going on here. Edited July 17, 2011 by coolheadal
Author coolheadal Posted July 18, 2011 Author Posted July 18, 2011 Still busy and I haven't seen the wife since 3pm on Saturday. Wow like someone told me she's WORTHLESS WIFE! Sums it up just right!
Author coolheadal Posted August 4, 2011 Author Posted August 4, 2011 (edited) Update.. I had pulled out on July 19th around 1am.. The prior day the wife was trying to push me out of the house so quickly. Telling me that her parents were coming over to clean the house for her. That was BS. She knew that her parents weren't coming around, but this was another stab at me to make me hurry up to leave before 6pm on July 18th. I ran into some stags with what I was going to take with me. I had to repack the SUV a few times. It wasn't until after 12m was I able to get what I could in it and plus one dog too. The other dog was crying. I felt bad for him. I told him to be good and and he gave me his paw shake for the last time. All this time she was going on me are you gone yet, why are you still here an etc.. At this time she decided to clean-up the place. After so many months she never did. Anyway got the dog into the SUV and was just about to leave when she demanded and give up the house key. Now at the time I didn't think about it. I told let me go already but she wanted the key. I had tested the lock he did turn but I did that with open door. This will come back to haunt me later on when I get to my own house. So by the time I got to the SUV she turns off the house light and I couldn't see where I was going. See how she is just bad wife! After drive away from her madness I had planned to visit one of my closest friend but he was almost 500 miles away. By the time I got to his place after 8 hours of driving non-stop except to walk the dog at the rest stops. I was completely knocked out. He was so glad to see me he and his wife and two kids. The dog and I was welcome. It was good to feel important again. I had stayed with them for 2 days then left on to my journey again. After 800 miles I get a text from the wife saying how cruel I was to give her the wrong key to open the door for the real-estate women to show off the house. Now I was worried that I had the wrong key to my own place. This should have never happen but this is how she is with me. At the last minute asking for stuff. Well after driving 1,489 miles I get to my house, to fine another truck in my driveway and I was so mad when I had found out that they're been doing that for some time now. Anyway when I had turned the key in the top lock it had turned. But the bottom key it didn't. I had to get a locksmith out. That had cost me $80 for him to come out, $80 for him to pick the lock and $150 to replace the lock that he had to drill and pull off the door. $240 buck ouch. But I had to get into the house. Well you know things weren't that great too this house has been sealed for almost 3 years and sure enough when I had turned on the main water supply there was leaks in the two bathrooms that had to be fixed. I've been fixing stuff and replacing too ever since I've been here. The refrigerator was the biggest issue it had eco system growing inside it. I know I should have left the doors open and I didn't! Then my dog won't eat anything just drink the water. That issue lasted for about a week. I had to let the dog into my bed so I could sleep as he was lonely. Boy oh boy what a dog owner has to do these days. Well it has been a few weeks and I was trying to get the wife to send me my stuff I had left. She won't do it! She want's $500 for doing it. I told her I am not paying you $500 to do it! I'll only pay for the difference to mail it and $100 bucks for your gas. But still why won't she send me stuff. Some important stuff was left behind and I am not going back there again. She told me she has thrown most of my stuff in her dumpster! That I should help her pay for. I told her no way. That's up to her and the bank. But talking to her is like talking to a brick she won't listen. Last night I had set up time to talk to her about how things need to be paid and she didn't bother to be home at the time I had said I was going to call. All she's looking for is $500 bucks to be put into the bank. I am not doing it! Since she been spending a lot of money on her family or someone for dinner over $150 on the day I had left and $70 bucks on hard drinks... I'll let you all know what happens next... Oh yes she's still in the house. Yard sale on this Saturday she told me she's selling my stuff! That's BS she told me last week she was doing it. But my important stuff is still in my home office. Funny how I was right she had her mother clean-up the house for her, but after I was gone! As for my stuff just a few boxes I told her I would have them come and get it but she didn't want the post guy to do it. I am confused. Even if I gave her what she wanted she won't do anything still. She better send my stuff otherwise going to be a war on. She started all of this though! Edited August 4, 2011 by coolheadal
Memphis Raines Posted August 4, 2011 Posted August 4, 2011 Well after driving 1,489 miles I get to my house, to fine another truck in my driveway and I was so mad when I had found out that they're been doing that for some time now. Anyway when I had turned the key in the top lock it had turned. But the bottom key it didn't. I had to get a locksmith out. That had cost me $80 for him to come out, $80 for him to pick the lock and $150 to replace the lock that he had to drill and pull off the door. $240 buck ouch. But I had to get into the house. she just broke the law. you should have simply gotten a hotel, contacted your attorney and went from there. and in any case, if you end up leaving the house, she owes YOU 1/2 the equity in it. remember that also when talking to your attorney. Well it has been a few weeks and I was trying to get the wife to send me my stuff I had left. She won't do it! She want's $500 for doing it. I told her I am not paying you $500 to do it! I'll only pay for the difference to mail it and $100 bucks for your gas. But still why won't she send me stuff. Some important stuff was left behind and I am not going back there again. dude, get an attorney now!! I'll let you all know what happens next... Oh yes she's still in the house. Yard sale on this Saturday she told me she's selling my stuff! you need to get an attorney and document all of this and build your case. Go consult an attorney, or your attorney if you already have one, NOW!!!!!
Author coolheadal Posted August 5, 2011 Author Posted August 5, 2011 Well being here I am more able to do what I want and not think about her at all. When she calls me up really don't care about her. I see she now knows how it is to pay for bills and manage a house. Do bad she wasn't a good housewife in all. I told her separation has started... Funny how she's not going out as much or at all. The second dog is at her parent house and oh boy he's going to have some odd behavior habits now. How don't know how this will end up but for now I am at peace of mind!
Author coolheadal Posted August 10, 2011 Author Posted August 10, 2011 (edited) she just broke the law. you should have simply gotten a hotel, contacted your attorney and went from there. and in any case, if you end up leaving the house, she owes YOU 1/2 the equity in it. remember that also when talking to your attorney. dude, get an attorney now!! you need to get an attorney and document all of this and build your case. Go consult an attorney, or your attorney if you already have one, NOW!!!!! I didn't see this post. So if the attorney gets involve this would force her to send my stuff to me? Today she has not send anything to me. Again asking for $500 for it! I still refuse to give her anything until I see my stuff here. She had a tag sale (yard sale) but couldn't sell much of my stuff. According to her my home office is sealed and she hasn't touch anything. My other clothes she want to give that away. Text messaging back and forth from her saying I going to throw your stuff away as I don't see any money in the joint account yet. I made the mistake in trusting her good well and sent her files that she needed in return for doing that she was suppose to to send me my important papers that were boxed up. She hasn't even looked into this yet. It's like she doesn't give a dam about it. Now on my end I had to stop her having access to some of my accounts for cell, warehouse club membership stuff like that. If I do not see anything from her. As for the lawyer she has yet file or did anything to that effect. But you see we're dealing with a person who don't play by the rules. She expect me even after all of this to pick up where she can't. This is not the case with me. It's like a separation and not a divorce. This calling from her on the phone every 3 to 4 days to see where we're at doesn't make sense. I still need my stuff and she as not made any move to that fact. Also this Friday 8.12.11 she's moving into her new 2 room townhouse. According to her the house has not sold but she won't make a dime on that deal as it will help her credit if it goes back to the bank. Her goal was to get me out of the house so she could do what she wanted. I also told her if you don't send me what I requested I'll come back to get it. She said no you don't need too. So on that note just have to leave it in her hands. She did say she has free storage and will place my stuff in there along with all the wedding photos that hang on wall. There is a lot of that. Why she's keeping it I don't know. This is so new I don't know what to do now? Can't trust her and don't know if she'll do what I want. Right now she's just into the move on Friday! I will not make her life easy it's going to be expensive to live on her own without my help! I don't want go back with her or even have her live here with me in my own house. I've been working on this house since I have got back. I still have lots to do, but I don't want to think about all of this in any case. But why oh why won't she mail me my stuff that's important to me.. How can she be so cruel about it! Edited August 10, 2011 by coolheadal
Author coolheadal Posted August 11, 2011 Author Posted August 11, 2011 Boy! Yesterday evening I get a call from her and all she wanted was to help you with her HDTV that her mother screwed up with picture. All she said I did not call to chat I call for you to help me this this problem!
Author coolheadal Posted August 14, 2011 Author Posted August 14, 2011 (edited) Well this so call wife has stoop so low to call me up on her move day to ask me to do her a favor. I can't believe her. I told her I was busy and not going to do anything until those 3 items are found and sent to me by Proirity Mail. But in the mean time I've started to drop her off my BJ Wholesale account, next Costco and I got to wait 1 more year on SamsClub. I just tell them the wife and me are in S mode soon the D mode. They understand and just give me a new account to start over with. I told them I don't want to add anyone to my account. Next dropping a supermarket discount card for food and gas. She screwed up her's writing bad checks so they had dropped her. Guess what they're going to dropped you again. Car insurance company can't find her and she's going to get screwed with her payments and no insurance next month. Also her cell phone will be dropped off my account too. She was slick to change my password but the cell company sent me the new one. I've change it and change the email for it so she'll be all messed up. As for a D-lawyer my situation is kind of messy as it would really get crazy here for them digging into our marriage but if they did I would win and she would won't get anything. If the judge knew what she did beside what she did to me it would be very messy she could be thrown in jail or loose her job as her job don't take kindly to messy lifestyles. Anyway my life is better for me here in my own place, very quiet and peaceful no wacko wife to deal with. I am getting to the point to now not too answer her calls or text just let it go... One thing she like to do it dig into me telling me on Friday she moved out and left my stuff behind. This is what I don't get how she can do that and don't care about it. Edited August 14, 2011 by coolheadal
Steen719 Posted August 14, 2011 Posted August 14, 2011 Cool, Glad you are doing better. You are enjoying the peace I want. I was wondering if there isn't someone who could go get your stuff and send it to you? Is there someone you worked with who could do it? How about a neighbor? You could possibly pay by CC once the stuff is at the UPS store. Is the house still open or can someone get in?
Author coolheadal Posted August 14, 2011 Author Posted August 14, 2011 Cool, Glad you are doing better. You are enjoying the peace I want. I was wondering if there isn't someone who could go get your stuff and send it to you? Is there someone you worked with who could do it? How about a neighbor? You could possibly pay by CC once the stuff is at the UPS store. Is the house still open or can someone get in? Closes friend is out of the country and won't be back until 16th plus he's on 14 day trip with his family wouldn't be fair for him to go their. Still I don't have anyone I can trust otherwise to ask. You really don't know who are your friends when you really need help. No one will help me. The boxes would have to be sealed. She's not doing it. I only told her I only needed 3 things that won't even cost $5 bucks to mail to me. But she's still wants $500! I still have the key to the door, unless the bank as put on one of those dummy locks. I think she's thrown out my stuff and lies about it being in the home office still. She was taunting me on the phone one night saying you left this and you left that and laughing about it. Oh well not much I can do is have faith but the only thing that I don't like is her attitude about this. There were so many times in her life she needed me to send her stuff or get herself out of a jam and now when I need her help, she won't even care to do so. Now she told me she needed tires for your SUV and wanted me to help her. NO! IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN!!!
Author coolheadal Posted August 15, 2011 Author Posted August 15, 2011 So she calls yesterday on Sunday... I've removed all reference to her call in my caller ID, but I still picked-up the call. She was so nice on the phone. She said why do you answer the phone like that? I say what is it now? She said can't you say hello how are you? Okay next subject I said did you mail me my stuff. She said yes! I was shocked! Then she said in my mind I did! She told me she was going to the post office on Saturday but never made it. I don't trust a word she said. But let's give her a chance to make good on what she said she'll do. She also mentioned that my stuff and her stuff was still in the house. She hasn't moved 100% yet.. Her brothers and family has taken most of my stuff like bikes and stuff they can use. I knew that was going to happen! Like open house for them! It's seem she's on vacation now. Her family is huge over 15 of them and sure enough they help her move and unpack and everything. All she did was check to see if the unpack and put up in the right places. Who ever have to deal with her after me good luck your going to need it. I say that stinks you move and unpack and put away the experience is great if you do it yourself and not depend on your family to do everything for you. But she doesn't care and use them to what she wants from them. I would have never bother with her if I knew that's how she was. Anyway it seems she can't buy stuff without asking me for help. I told her you need to learn how to do it. Buy your microwave, toaster, blender, can opener an etc. I guess her family can't help her out. Then she told me she needs a HDTV, Surround system. I told her who's paying for that now me.. That's on you! I don't know why she likes to call me and talk, I don't want to talk to her I see no point doing so. She wants to stay as friends. But I can't see how that can be with all what she did to me. But again it's her mind we've dealing with and the wonderful world she as made from all of this. I am better off without her I see that already. I was shopping late over 9pm here at the local supermarket and well I don't know really not looking again for good while to clear my head. But I women walk by me and smiled. I don't know her so she's new off the mark. But this is how it happens. I am sure there will be more like that to come down the pike.. I just want to get rid of the worthless W for now until it's completely cleared. FB I was on there and she still have us listed as married. So who the heck knows what's she's doing... FB I haven't been on there since 1/11. She's been on their recently. Just have to see how this all plays out...
Author coolheadal Posted August 20, 2011 Author Posted August 20, 2011 This week since she's been home she's calling me up and wants to chat like everything is normal. I sill don't have what I had wanted for her to send. Now I did find one of the items but still one item I do need. She told me I am not number one position so it has to wait. Too bad for her because now if she doesn't do it by the end of this month I'll have to step to plan B. Plan A was started when she started up this BS. Plan B is going to be hard to live. But it will be done if she doesn't mail me that document? She has sold more of my stuff then she as lead me to believe. Again another Yard Sell today Saturday. Some of my collections are gone though but doesn't matter I can always get them again. Still just her telling me they were sold tells me I won't be getting anything back from her. Only things she sings to me on the phone is... I AM LIVING THE SINGLE LIFE!
Jono_11 Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 I am going through a similar experience except in my case my wife's status on FB has changed from "married" to "friend" with me. All it took was a click of a button part of the social divorce process. It's just another clue/hint for me of her true intentions. She has also been promoting the single life telling me she wants to be an independent successful woman and she can only do it on her own yet she is not on her own, staying with her folks for now. I agree with your approach, time for being nice and considerate is over ...what comes around goes around and it goes full circle ....our wife's only catch a wake up when it's too late , realize what they have lost is more than they have gained!! KARMA
Author coolheadal Posted August 24, 2011 Author Posted August 24, 2011 I am going through a similar experience except in my case my wife's status on FB has changed from "married" to "friend" with me. All it took was a click of a button part of the social divorce process. It's just another clue/hint for me of her true intentions. She has also been promoting the single life telling me she wants to be an independent successful woman and she can only do it on her own yet she is not on her own, staying with her folks for now. I agree with your approach, time for being nice and considerate is over ...what comes around goes around and it goes full circle ....our wife's only catch a wake up when it's too late , realize what they have lost is more than they have gained!! KARMA So yours lives with her parents. Mine might as well she doesn't cook her mommy does everything for her! Just lazy. Sure I know she misses me but won't tell me she does her pride get in her way. Too much of a big shot now to deal with me. And of course I never got any of my stuff. She's sold pretty much everything I had or gave it to her family.
Author coolheadal Posted August 24, 2011 Author Posted August 24, 2011 (edited) Well I haven't heard from the SW for a couple of days.. But I had to call her up late last night because my central AC had quit on me and it had to be replaced. Sure enough the new central AC is made by company division and they have employee rebate program. So now today I can get it which would be $425 bucks! That's really good amount. But there is a catch? 1. The invoice would have to add the SW name to it! 2. I have to send that invoice to the SW new address. For number 2 she acted like she didn't want to give me her new address. Can you believe that BS. On top to that I had asked her to give me a call with the info and still she doesn't do anything about it. Kept on telling me last night why should I help you? Can you believe her! I must help her but she can't help me! 3. The $425 bucks check will be made out to her name, not mine. Boy it's like I am handing her the money. She'll never send that back to me. Now she want's to help so badly she got the forms to fill out now. After learning she will get a check in the amount of $425, which is my money not her's. Now I might as well kiss that check good by plus I don't want her to see my CC information and how much everything cost then she's going to say you have all this money and couldn't send me $500 for your stuff (this was BS) she wanted to open another checking account only in her name. This I found out the other day she withdraw that mount from our JTC. Edited August 25, 2011 by coolheadal
jaymz Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 My STBXW would not p1ss on me if I was on fire. Stop relying on her. Dont give her any money or power over you.
Author coolheadal Posted August 26, 2011 Author Posted August 26, 2011 My STBXW would not p1ss on me if I was on fire. Stop relying on her. Dont give her any money or power over you. No your right I am not. She's not getting this check even if it's for $425 just too much of a hassle with her. Plus she's telling me she's still selling or giving away my stuff. This shows me just can't believe a word she says now and can't even trust her. So friendly on the phone calling me up for QVC stuff she's buying. Yeah because she thinks that this check will be going through and getting in her hands to spend on her. Nope it's not! A close friend told me to be nice to her? But what cost she doesn't send anything back to me and it's been more than a month. So now I need to be mean to her an cut her loose now! I don't like doing that this is not my nature. But I'll feel better if I do. I don't like doing it but she started all of this back in May and this is the life she wants now with out me. So with out me you don't get any perks and no more help on the phone. Go to your family, friends or new lovers. If they can't help you oh well.. Not my problem anymore like she would say to me. Time to throw that dish back at her!
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