Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Share Posted May 24, 2011 Oh, don't you cheaters and liars LOVE to say that everything is not black and white. As if you can be half faithfull/monogamous and a half liar/cheater. This is BS. Either you cheat or you don't. If you want to be faithful, then the days of little secret gardens on Facebook are over... Actually it's me the BS..I took back over my account...I find it insulting that someone finds me so gullible..like I have no f..ing brain. Link to post Share on other sites
Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Share Posted May 24, 2011 My pop cheated on my mom. They survived it and were married for 66 years. After he passed and after my divorce my aunt (mom's sister) told me she gave dad a piece of her mind. She not only said she'd never trust him again, but informed him that her sister and her kids had a standing invitation to live with her at moment's notice. House, cars, money; all of it. He'd be out. My aunt was true to her word, and basically tolerated my pop from then on. Only when he was very old and ill did she finally say to him "I guess you proved me wrong." He smiled and said he loved her. My dad was an amazing man. I seriously doubt you're made up of the stuff he was. In fact, I believe from the wording of your message that you're full of it. If I was your wife, I'd toss you out on your ass like the lying, cheating SOB that you are. You'll cheat again, and justify it. You're untrustworthy. Prove me wrong. Why do you find it so hard to believe someone else can change...he did?(your dad) and you nothing about my H other than he cheated..he also saves lives for a living, and works mad hours to give his family everything..thats the only problem with these boards , there are not enough specifics about the people themselves... Link to post Share on other sites
worlybear Posted May 24, 2011 Share Posted May 24, 2011 Is this for real or is this a troll? Link to post Share on other sites
Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Share Posted May 24, 2011 Is this for real or is this a troll? really?..tx. Link to post Share on other sites
Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 24, 2011 Author Share Posted May 24, 2011 But, the other poster did NOT call "you" (the betrayed wife) "gullible." The other poster was telling your "husband" to NOT assume that you were "gullible," that your "husband" wouldn't be able to fool you so easily. Idk..did not sound like that to me, maybe I mistook it. Link to post Share on other sites
donnamaybe Posted May 24, 2011 Share Posted May 24, 2011 Hahaha, that's funny. Is your wife truly that gullible? She must be, or why would you assume even for a moment that this is going to work? Yep. Sounds to me like you were called "gullible." Really, HA, some people just want to crush others who are trying to better themselves. Just click the ignore button. Link to post Share on other sites
Lishy Posted May 24, 2011 Share Posted May 24, 2011 Half Alive ... I feel sorry for you! He is the cheat and YOU give him your passwords and he comes onto your account to talk to strangers about how he has changed after he watched you fade away and the light go out in you ... He then says he was talking to a girl on facebook and only shagged another girl cos she was crying about her cheating ex? Really? She was upset about ebing cheated on so she shags another girls hubby? Where are the morals to this story? Are you happy being with him? Do you really believe he has changed? Why are you wasting your life with him? You say he works all the hours to support his family but he managed to fit in multiple affairs ?? I will never understand why women sell themselves short but I do wish you happiness and the ability to respect yourself and what you are worth x Link to post Share on other sites
worlybear Posted May 24, 2011 Share Posted May 24, 2011 really?..tx. Now I'm even more confused. WTF does tx mean? "If it walks like a troll.... sounds like a troll..........":cool: Link to post Share on other sites
Steadfast Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 With nearly 150 posts I doubt this is a troll. It isn't however, the most intelligent conversation I've read. Not sure what can be done here- Link to post Share on other sites
Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 25, 2011 Author Share Posted May 25, 2011 Now I'm even more confused. WTF does tx mean? "If it walks like a troll.... sounds like a troll..........":cool: I was being sarcastic..tx mmeaning tx for your input,or lack there of.. Link to post Share on other sites
Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 25, 2011 Author Share Posted May 25, 2011 With nearly 150 posts I doubt this is a troll. It isn't however, the most intelligent conversation I've read. Not sure what can be done here- Im to tired for intelligence at this point, need a break! Link to post Share on other sites
Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 25, 2011 Author Share Posted May 25, 2011 Half Alive ... I feel sorry for you! He is the cheat and YOU give him your passwords and he comes onto your account to talk to strangers about how he has changed after he watched you fade away and the light go out in you ... He then says he was talking to a girl on facebook and only shagged another girl cos she was crying about her cheating ex? Really? She was upset about ebing cheated on so she shags another girls hubby? Where are the morals to this story? Are you happy being with him? Do you really believe he has changed? Why are you wasting your life with him? You say he works all the hours to support his family but he managed to fit in multiple affairs ?? I will never understand why women sell themselves short but I do wish you happiness and the ability to respect yourself and what you are worth x Please dont feel sorry fo me,i dont need or want it, im stronger than it seems,believe me, h on the other hand not so sure Link to post Share on other sites
NoIDidn't Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 My dad was a serial cheat. To a degree, he still is - just single. BUT I do believe that even they can change. He tells the women up front that they aren't the only ones. I can believe the part about reading the OW/OM forum. Serial cheats know exactly the lies they feed these women to keep them hooked. If anyone knows how to seduce a woman, its usually a serial cheat. And they aren't known for actually respecting the women that they cheat with, while having a weird kind of respect for the woman they are cheating on. I believe that HA's husband did post for a bit. It seems strange that the cheater has the passwords too, but know that a cheaters BIGGEST fear is that they will face MUCH-DESERVED retaliation. Good luck, HA. This thread seems like a seduction of sorts. Get him to do the work you require, not the easy stuff to faceless strangers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 25, 2011 Author Share Posted May 25, 2011 My dad was a serial cheat. To a degree, he still is - just single. BUT I do believe that even they can change. He tells the women up front that they aren't the only ones. I can believe the part about reading the OW/OM forum. Serial cheats know exactly the lies they feed these women to keep them hooked. If anyone knows how to seduce a woman, its usually a serial cheat. And they aren't known for actually respecting the women that they cheat with, while having a weird kind of respect for the woman they are cheating on. I believe that HA's husband did post for a bit. It seems strange that the cheater has the passwords too, but know that a cheaters BIGGEST fear is that they will face MUCH-DESERVED retaliation. Good luck, HA. This thread seems like a seduction of sorts. Get him to do the work you require, not the easy stuff to faceless strangers. Not sure why it's a big deal for cheater to have passwords..I really could care less..I have nothing to hide..our MC thinks we both should put the effort in, so why not, the less secrets between BOTH of us the better even if it's as stupid as me giving up my passwords. Link to post Share on other sites
PinkInTheLimo Posted May 25, 2011 Share Posted May 25, 2011 Not sure why it's a big deal for cheater to have passwords..I really could care less..I have nothing to hide..our MC thinks we both should put the effort in, so why not, the less secrets between BOTH of us the better even if it's as stupid as me giving up my passwords. If you have been cheating on your W then giving up your passwords is not stupid at all!!! The simple fact that you are bashing the fact that you had to do this, shows that there is no remorse on your side. And don't talk about "BOTH of you" having to make amendments!!! YOU are the one who cheated so YOU have to start by making amendments. Link to post Share on other sites
Author HalfAlive22 Posted May 25, 2011 Author Share Posted May 25, 2011 If you have been cheating on your W then giving up your passwords is not stupid at all!!! The simple fact that you are bashing the fact that you had to do this, shows that there is no remorse on your side. And don't talk about "BOTH of you" having to make amendments!!! YOU are the one who cheated so YOU have to start by making amendments. ok this thread is getting confusing...it is me now the BS talking, and I was saying I don't mind giving up my passwords..I was not bashing it all, lol Link to post Share on other sites
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