Author oneday Posted April 23, 2004 Author Share Posted April 23, 2004 i just can't wait until he is able to get all of his stuff out and then we'll be really done. he wanted me to let him stay with me while he figures out what to do and where to stay. his sister won't let him stay with her which i think is kind of strange. guess she knows stuff that i don't. but i am not going to let him stay - in fact when he is ready for his stuff - i am going to meet him somewhere. and i am changing the locks tonight so i won't have to get that key back. thanks everyone - this is a great place for friends. Link to post Share on other sites
Believer69 Posted April 24, 2004 Share Posted April 24, 2004 Wow, I had to check in. For what its worth I think you did the right thing. It is hard at first, but the fact that you do feel a little better shows that you did. I was in the same place you were 9 months ago. The first month was the toughest, but really it wasnt as bad as I had imagine it would be. I've really NEVER been alone, and so that was difficult. And there lies my problem. I am dating the best guy right now, and because of this web-sight, I have learned to start doing things more with my friends, rather then depend on a man for all of my happiness. It has made all the difference. Dont worry about being alone, and dont worry if that's just not for you and maybe you will meet a great guy! In either situation its up to you, and you know you will always do whats in your best interest, as you have proved that this week! This is a great place for friends, and to talk. Link to post Share on other sites
Author oneday Posted April 24, 2004 Author Share Posted April 24, 2004 it's saturday and i made it through the night alone. and i have made it through most of today only crying twice and taking a nice long nap. he did call me this morning. saying that he missed me and he loved me. he also asked that i not pack up his stuff. that he wants to do it. that is fine with me - i will just have someone there with me when he comes to get it. one bad thing that happen - the new lock i got - the old key works in it - doesn't that suck - so i need to go to home depot tonight and get another one. figures doesn't it. but i do have poles to put in the doors in case for some reason he tries to get in while i am there. i do keep second guessing myself - but then i tell myself i did the right thing. thank you everyone for the suggestion, thoughts and friendship - it is greatly appreicated. i'll keep you posted on how i'm doing - in a new thread next time - i think i can put this one to rest. talk with you soon. Link to post Share on other sites
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