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I love you, but I'm not IN love with you.


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i think i got that when my ex finished with me.

 

it happened over a phone call that went wrong in an instant.....it ended up with her finishing with me because she really didnt need a boyfriend in her life right now as she needs to be alone to sort out everything in her life...then right before the phone call ended a couple of hours later she said crying down the phone that she loved me.

 

this wasnt the way to break up with me...for the week following her breaking up with me i couldnt understand why we couldnt be together and wouldnt she need me to be there for her if shes having problems?....so i started with all the pleading and the bargaining which was stupid but we have all done it.

 

i think i could still be with her if it wasnt for that as i went to see her two weeks after she finished it and she told me that her feeling sfor me were really strong untill i started with all the pleading and bargaining.

 

its now got to the stage where contact is next to nothing as i got really upset over a text message she sent me saying that she was missing me two weeks after we had finished....i told her it was unfair her saying this and i think i hurt her feelings and she then said that she will never text me again!...anyway i explained what i meant about her texting me if she fealt like it and that i didnt expect her to be texting me saying that she was missing me and i think she understood.

 

im going to phone this wednesday to see how her easter has been..i hope it goes ok

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Originally posted by hurtingandconfused

Or how about "It's not you it's me."

 

"I don't know what I want. I just want to be single right now."

 

Or how about, 'I just need find myself. please wait for me and never give up on me' --

 

The biggest full of s**t statement I've ever heard.

 

~V

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I got the "I just need to find myself" "I don't think I really know what love is" "I'm not ready to be in a relationship right now" "It's not you, I just don't wanna be with anybody" and the "I need time and space" all from the same person.

 

One thing's for sure: THOSE ARE NOTHING BUT LOADS OF S****. They are incomplete, what they actually mean is:

 

"I just need to find myself...with someone better"

 

"I'm not ready to be in a relationship right now...but I will as soon as I dump the hell out of you"

 

"It's not you, I just don' wanna be with anybody (of course it's you!, sucker!)"

 

"I need time and space (time to look for your replacement and space to keep him/her)".

 

Finally, our main phrase "I love you but I'm not in love with you" translates into "You're alright, but you're not good enough for me".

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Or what about this one.....

 

 

"If you really loved me, you will let me do this. just let me be single and i'll see how i feel after a while"

 

:mad:

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