dressing up Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 I find myself day dreaming of the day I'll run into my guy friend (whom I've stopped talking to because of an incident/a misunderstanding after he got himself a girlfriend) because I believe we can then clear any misunderstanding or trash things out and be in contact again. Most of you may say it's not a good idea (I won't stalk him or stake a run-in) to be in contact with him. But I just delusionally believe that something good can come out of such a situation. I don't know. For a lot of reasons, most of all my ego, I won't call him. But if it was a real run-in, I find that it could help a lot in mending relationships. Am I a borderline crazy already? Link to post Share on other sites
Badenov Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 No, you're not. I'm in the same boat. I keep thinking if she'd just hear my side of the story . . .The tough part is figuring out whether or not they want to listen. Sometimes all you need to do is make a gesture & see if they'll meet you halfway. It means swallowing a little pride, but sometimes friendship needs those kind of sacrifices. & if their minds are already made up, you have a clear concious that you did all you could. Link to post Share on other sites
Author dressing up Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 No, you're not. I'm in the same boat. I keep thinking if she'd just hear my side of the story . . .The tough part is figuring out whether or not they want to listen. Sometimes all you need to do is make a gesture & see if they'll meet you halfway. It means swallowing a little pride, but sometimes friendship needs those kind of sacrifices. & if their minds are already made up, you have a clear concious that you did all you could. I couldn't decide whether or not to contact my guy friend (a large part of it thanks to my ego), so I thought I would leave it to a run-in, if at all. Because if I run into my guy friend and we chat, we can talk about what happened and hopefully clear the air, if needed. If I don't run into him, it just means maybe it's just a chapter in my life that's best left in the past. I don't think my guy friend would shun me if I reach out to him. But I don't know what he's already thinking now that we aren't really friends anymore and I can't bring myself to do it. Link to post Share on other sites
NicoleM Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 I feel the same way only I want to tell him off and tell him how awful of a person he is and hope to god his GF is with him so she hears it too. Link to post Share on other sites
Frank13 Posted May 28, 2011 Share Posted May 28, 2011 Dressing up, what is your situation? Were you just friends and you wanted to be more and then he got a gf? Link to post Share on other sites
Author dressing up Posted May 28, 2011 Author Share Posted May 28, 2011 Dressing up, what is your situation? Were you just friends and you wanted to be more and then he got a gf? We were friends and I was starting to like him. Suddenly he said he got a girlfriend. I don't know if I liked him even though I knew/suspected he liked me/dropped hints/tested whether I liked him. It felt like someone that got away. Link to post Share on other sites
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