kalena9488 Posted May 30, 2011 Share Posted May 30, 2011 So, my XBF and I had been together for 2 years. We broke up then end of Dec and he moved out but we have still been seeing each other. I am the one that was having a hard time deciding if I wanted to be in a relationship with him for many reasons...drugs and money mainly. I have other posts if you want to read them. Well I've been thinking alot and I do love him and was leaning towards trying to make it work on the dating side. Not living together etc. Well, yesterday me, him and his 14 yo daughter went to the beach and had a great day. He dropped me off at my house and went home. Well on his way home a family member called him and he decided to go to their house. The next thing I know I'm getting texts from that person with my X with his arms around this younger girl looks like she's about ready to kiss him and he has this great big smile on his face. Then I start getting texts from her saying oh looks like he's got a young one now, he's been seeing her for months and he's gonna have a good nite to night. Things like that. Well, while I was getting these texts I was texting him as well telling him what I was getting and asking him if this was true etc. He never responded. Needless to say I was very upset. So today he tells me he had no idea that this person was texting me and telling me that stuff. I have a really hard time believing that because I know where he was and if his phone was going off and she was texting they would have known based on the small promixmity that they were in. I'm to the point where I feel he his friends and his family did this to me for whatever reason. Even if he claims he didn't know he should have known since I was reporting to him everything they were texting me and if he loved me sooooo much like he says he does he would have put a stop to it I never would have allowed someone to text something so hurtfull. Any way I just need to know your opinion on if I'm overreacting because I've finally decided I'm done and it's because of alot of crap but this was the final straw Link to post Share on other sites
FryFish Posted May 30, 2011 Share Posted May 30, 2011 You need to block this *******s contact with you... You might need to change your number. Whoever was texting you got your number from him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author kalena9488 Posted May 30, 2011 Author Share Posted May 30, 2011 Hey thanks for the response fryfish. It's his aunt that has my number and we were texting each other before I knew he was going over there. I did think we were friends until that stuff started. So even though he denies and denies. I have looked at my texts over and over and in my opinion he was very aware and just didn't care and I think that might be what hurts me the most. I have been needing to end this relationship for a long time because we are just not good for each other. But I thought I was in love with him. Well, sometimes I guess being in love isnt enough either. He has disrespected me in soooo many other ways this was probably the least but hurt me the most. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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