mcca555 Posted May 31, 2011 Share Posted May 31, 2011 I really like this girl and would like to progress in a relationship. However, she is currently grieving the loss of her boyfriend...of 5-6 months. She likes me and I like her. She thinks her feelings about me is like her cheating on her (now gone) boyfriend. I am really confused because I really like her but I don't know what to do. How can she move on or will she ever move on? Link to post Share on other sites
OldOnTheInside Posted May 31, 2011 Share Posted May 31, 2011 Just give her space to grieve in her own time. It would be distasteful to pursue her while she is still emotionally vulnerable. Link to post Share on other sites
mcca555 Posted May 31, 2011 Share Posted May 31, 2011 yeah that is how i feel. There isn't any rush or anything. I have only really known her for the past 4 days. We both graduated from the university and were celebrating. We have been talking for the past 4 days non stop. She left yesterday on a vacation to Hawaii, I hope she gets a piece/peace of mind out there. It is strange because I just met her but I care for her deeply. She told me she had a crush on me. We have been extremely honest and open with each other. I want to tell her my feelings toward her but would not want her to become sad. It is really tough to see her so sad. Yesterday marked 1 yr that her boyfriend passed I would not mind just being a friend... what saddens me is she is very young at 23 yrs old. I just think to myself that i will hold her in my heart and do my best to be there for her. It is so hard, feels like I shouldn't be falling for this girl because she is going through hard times. Really I just posted on this website because I have to tell somebody. I really like this girl a lot. It is hard to hold it in, but I know for her it is a lot tougher. Hope she is relaxing and enjoying herself in Hawaii Link to post Share on other sites
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