parents at either end of the stick

[JasOneGirl]

well it all started when i decided to come to japan [oh hi from japan BTW XD] anyways long story short, dad is having an affair with someone my age [dad is around 70plus, mum is around 60 plus, i am adopted, mum is his second wife [not married on paper] i am like 27 this year] i am a girl living out her japan dream.... anyhows, mum found out thru someone, then went into depression, which lead into suicide, which was prevented by my aunt pleading with her, so basically, she wanted out, dad got mad, she went back to settle stuff, and ended up going back to him [dun ask me why, hence y men cannot seem to understand a women, i dun even understand, something about sentimentalism and something....] anyhows right now, as much as i pray/hope my dad will reliase that the 3rd women, unlike my mum who take cares of him actually runs the company, actually is in for the $$$ [ok no offence to the phillipinos, but she;s one and the general image of them is pretty bad] things are getting pretty much like daily verbal abuse, i tell my mum to take it in one ear and let it out [but we all know that is hard IRL] and she like i am trying to but the verbal abuse is pretty explicit........ i just do not know what to tell her, i mean she like if he hits me i am leaving, but for her everyday is pretty bad, in the sense that its pretty heated up, and my dad well lets say i lost all respect for him. i mean i know u can stray, but being hung up on a girl your daughter age for months end, seriously WTF? she;s planning to run to me in japan [she should have 3 mths, then we have to move......] really anyone knows what i should do, i have room for her now and living here isn;t too bad..... but the main problem is what i should do prepare, just in case.... obvivously the best case scenario the stupid dad of mine reliases it before its too late, but chances are pretty much zilch......... all advise welcome, dad bashing is ok too..... LOL i am pretty much a happy go lucky person, so in general i am pretty much happy...... but hearing my mum problems gets me down, to abit emo, abit i hate the 3rd women, i hate dad abit.... LOL but yeah, feels good typing this out.....