roman_pavluchenko Posted June 3, 2011 Share Posted June 3, 2011 she dumped me 4 months ago, its been a whole month since i haven't seen her at all or heard from her, i do want her back deep down but on the surface i keep telling myself that i couldn't take her back because she really hurt me and i wouldn't be able to build up the trust again, i've been focusing on my studies lately and been going out with friends every weekend and now i see a picture of her with one of her friends at a club and to be quite honest she didn't really as attractive as i remember, but it still really upset me, also today i thought i saw her at uni, i glanced at someone who looked like her and instantly got this heavy feeling in my chest. what the hell is going on! Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted June 3, 2011 Share Posted June 3, 2011 The same thing that goes on with all of us who are dumped. Healing takes time, but there's no fixed amount of time. I like the fact you stated you didn't think she was as attractive now, that is so true. It's like before you fall for them, they are attractive, but nothing special. Then once the feelings kick in, they're the most beautiful person in the world. Once it all ends, it's hard to get back to how you saw them. Eventually you will though, just take each day as it comes. Accept the ups and downs, and accept that it always gets better. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted June 4, 2011 Share Posted June 4, 2011 I'm 2 months out of my break up, it wasn't a long relationship (just shy of six months), but I am not over him in the least biit. I still think of him constantly, and i still can't stop blaming myself for everything that went awry, even though I know logically it wasn't all my fault. Healing takes time- a difficult break up is not something you get over right away. I was doing okay for a while, but I have regressed recently. It comes and goes in waves- you just have to keep riding the wave until the pain goes away. Link to post Share on other sites
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