Author RuinedLife Posted June 5, 2011 Author Share Posted June 5, 2011 "I WILL LET MYSELF OUT OF THIS PIT" "I WILL GET MYSELF OUT" "I AM GETTING OUT" "I AM OUT" Yes I must keep repeating that to myself you are so right. Thank you for the strong words of encouragement. I really hope I can help myself get better. Link to post Share on other sites
MyHeartHurtsOuch Posted June 5, 2011 Share Posted June 5, 2011 I promise you that you can..it's all about your thoughts and what thoughts you hold captive (and dont allow to spiral into a cycle of pain and confusion) and the thoughts that you do let live (that you will be ok and that you will get through this). Trust me we all are in pain, we are all wishing and wanting, but the reality is here and all we can do is make it better or worse...please choose better. Link to post Share on other sites
hopeless_case Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 i know how you feel ruined life, i feel the exact same way. i have dreams about him too, and can't focus on anything. different ppl have offered so much different advice to me.......i feel like i cant live without him either and feel like i'll always regret this. i feel like i'll always wonder what could've been, and that i cant live without him.....although i have lived without him for this long now. i dont leave the house anymore cuz everything reminds me of him. i dont go to movies, go out to eat, or anything at all. that's why i feel like moving away to a different city where we have no memories together. and that way i won't have a chance of ever running into him. i dont know if that's an option for you. i feel like i have to try it b/c i've tried everything else. he keeps in a little bit of contact with me, but i am starting to pull away. i dont want to stick around while he finds another girl cuz that will hurt a lot more. Link to post Share on other sites
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