Sad One Posted April 15, 2004 Share Posted April 15, 2004 Hey... I've been with my ex for 6 months... She did always said that I love you, it's very hard to leave you for another guy,you treat me really really nice... but at the 6th month we got in to a really big fight... The fight was at nite... I was frusrated and tired after comin back from a trip... I went online and saw her on also... So we talked and talked until she was trying to tell me something and at halfway telling me she stopped and she let me wonder what is the other half of the something(she does that quite often)... Normally I would let myself wonder too... As I did mentioned I was frustrated and tired... I tried to get the other half of the something out of her... And it ended up in a fight... Before that I was losing trust on her... Cause she kinda flirt with other guys(very seldom and those guys are people I know, i dun know if I was jealous till it made me lose trust or wat)... The fight went on... and on and on... Phew... On that night I could feel that my brain has overworked and I can't take anymore of thinking... So I do admit that I did took out my frustration and anger on her... And I really do regret that... She told me that it's over after the fight ended... The next morning she called... We talked about lastnight and the fight... She asked Do you really hate me tat much?... I didn't try to answer her... but instead I asked her a question... Do you really think it is worth to end everything because of a fight... she didn't answered too... Both of us paused for a second... So I started talkin again and ask her whether it is really over? if it is this conversation is over... So it did... It was over... We became frens normal frens... The break up was 1 year ago... In that one year... She had a relationship that didn't work out and it lasted for a week(luckily they didn't do anything)... in that one year I still love her... and until now... I still do... But I don't know how to open my mouth since she was my ex and all... I didn't know wat to say or how to ask out... or how to ask her so that be could be together again... So pls help me out guys and gurls... I need both side's opinions... If I had done anything wrong... Pls do correct my mistakes guys and gurls... Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted April 15, 2004 Share Posted April 15, 2004 Wow...I thought it was a recent breakup at first. Hrmmm 1 year. What took you so long to try to reconcile with her? I'm sure if you gave yourself 1-2 weeks and then a talk you guys would have PROBABLY gotten back together. Fights are normal, EVERYONE gets into them.(NON ABUSIVE) You can TRY talking to her. But I honestly think that too much time has gone by. Link to post Share on other sites
Cutie314 Posted April 15, 2004 Share Posted April 15, 2004 It sounds like she is into playing games. Do you really want that back? Is it her, or a "girlsfriend" you are looking for? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sad One Posted April 16, 2004 Author Share Posted April 16, 2004 Originally posted by Cutie314 It sounds like she is into playing games. Do you really want that back? Is it her, or a "girlsfriend" you are looking for? I do want her back badly... and if it was a girlfriend I was looking for... I wouldn't wanna get a ex back... I just pick one girl and go for it... But I didn't... Why? Cause I knoe i still have feelings for her...I know I have let a long time passed... but I can't forget about her...Ya guys and gurls out there... pls do give opinions... Link to post Share on other sites
joseph Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Hi, Im thinking that you should try talking to her..BUT don't have very high expectations, a year is a long time. But you havent been able to move on with your life..so talk to her..this way you can ease your mind and, if she doesnt want a relationship..you can start rebuilding you. goodluck Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sad One Posted April 16, 2004 Author Share Posted April 16, 2004 Hey Joseph, I'll be try to talk to her. But it won't be soon and it won't be too late. Thanks for ur advice. And pls do wish me luck. Link to post Share on other sites
Cutie314 Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Originally posted by Sad One I do want her back badly... and if it was a girlfriend I was looking for... I wouldn't wanna get a ex back... I just pick one girl and go for it... But I didn't... Why? Cause I knoe i still have feelings for her...I know I have let a long time passed... but I can't forget about her...Ya guys and gurls out there... pls do give opinions... Then you absolutely should talk to her It sounds like talking to her will help you move on in your life no matter the outsome GOOD LUCK!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Sad One Posted April 16, 2004 Author Share Posted April 16, 2004 Thanks Cutie. I definitely will talk to her. XD No matter what the outcome is, I will always try to improve myself and to move on. Link to post Share on other sites
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