Jellybean Posted April 15, 2004 Share Posted April 15, 2004 Hi guys, I'm new here and I have a question for you all. My boyfriend and I have been in LDR for 3 years, he's 23 and I'm 2 years older. We only see each other once every two weeks. At this point in our lives, I know it's still early for us to talk about marriage (he just graduated last summer), but we have been together for 3 years, and we haven't really talk about what are we planning to do in our next step. Sometimes I just afraid to talk about this because he's going to tell me "I'm not ready for commitment". And he rarely says "I Love U" and I just feel these few words are hardly speak out from his mouth. Am I the right girl for him? I feel something missing in my heart, what should I do? Link to post Share on other sites
SportyChick7 Posted April 15, 2004 Share Posted April 15, 2004 You guys havent talked about marriage after 3 years? THe question I think you have to ask is, not whether you can live with him, but whether you can live without him? I would hope after years he would share his "I love you's" a little more freely, and that there would be some more discussion about the whole commitment deal. I dont think you are too young to talk about anything, but if u feel there is something missing, ask yourself what that THING is. Is it just time to take the difficult step and break up, or is it that you wish he would talk about marriage with you because you see yourself with him? Marriage is not somthing to just "go for", if you dont feel a sincere "peace" about marrying him after 3 years, I would seriosly look at other options. Good luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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