guitar23 Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 Haven't posted in this section before, but maybe I should have earlier. I'm in an odd place with a girl I just cant shake no matter what I try. We really hit it off over the holidays and tried to make it work for the first part of 2011. Unfortunately my work kept me busy most weekends so we rarely saw each other. She got busy as well and things kind of fizzled out. We've recently begun talking again, and a part of me keeps thinking it might work this time, but another part of me says it didn't work before, why would it now? Any advice from any of you that have successfully or unsuccessfully started over with a LDR? When we are able to be together it is amazing. I could be wrong but it feels like she is still into me but is holding back. I've kind of done the same thing so i guess I can't blame her. Link to post Share on other sites
heartshaped Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 We almost ended because we both got really busy last fall and weren't able to see each other for much longer than usual. One thing I have to say is being in a LDR you really have to commit to each other and learn to accept the fact that sometimes it will be long periods of time between when you see each other. I think what helps with that though is when you can't visit because of time constraints try to make up for it with more communication, video chatting, etc. It really does go a long way when you are missing your partner. I think anything is possible if it's what both people want. Link to post Share on other sites
liverpool fc Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 i would just say keep trying your hardest to keep going, LDR requires patience which you both have shown but i would recommend keep talking about meeting up on a date to meet up as it keeps both happy Link to post Share on other sites
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