SoMuchToSay Posted June 6, 2011 Share Posted June 6, 2011 (edited) Background: So things were going great with this girl until I was forced to move away for 9 months. We had been going out for 6 months before I left. We met up for 10 days over Christmas Break and I stayed with her and things were great, even better than before. Situation: So it was around 2 months ago when she said that her feelings for me were getting weaker. I went through great emotional turmoil because I still loved her just the same. Since then things have been on a steady decline and now it's to the point where we are basically single again. I have some feelings for her still but not as strong as before just because she hurt me by losing her feelings almost altogether. She said that she thinks there is a possibility that it was just the distance that interferred with her feelings, but told me she doesn't care either way if I come back (which I don't believe, because when I brought up breaking up she got really angry). I have my ticket to leave a week from now. I'm definitely going, no questions. My question is regarding the probability of us re-igniting our love once I return. I'm sure we've both changed a little, but I want to feel that love again. How will she react? Indifference? Will I have to go through the motions of the beginning of our relationship again? Will she just have a rush of emotions? What are my chances here? EDIT: I'm 18 and she's 16. I realize her being young is a contributing factor to the confusion she said she's having, but we wouldn't have lasted this long if it wasn't for real... Edited June 6, 2011 by SoMuchToSay Link to post Share on other sites
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