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terminalmoraine

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terminalmoraine

The relationship ended last year in May.

 

There was complete no contact between us both from the night of the break up until 4 months later when I received a text from him saying "Hey". His reason for the break up was that he didn't love me.

 

I took the break up badly and I thought I had a chance of winning him back. We texted back and forth. He insisted he didn't have a new girlfriend. We met up once and we ended up having sex. I was an emotional wreck after and he couldn't leave quick enough. He texted a few times after but not in the same way.

 

Just after Christmas I sent a text to which he replied but I never did. The next time I contacted him was a friendly text in March to which I was ignored.

 

Last week I heard a song it made me think of him. I tried to find him on facebook. I did. What I found shook me up. The same girl who was in his facebook picture after we broke up is now in a picture hugging him.

 

I am glad they are happy. However it makes me feel worthless and ugly. Since he must have been with her when he met up with me. Its as if he views me as an object.

 

I have sent a friend request on facebook he hasn't accepted or ignored, do you think that he hates me now?

 

How do I erase him from my memory...:confused:

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He dont hate you, he has just moved on. The prob you have is he knows is has power over you, if he called you later you would go running.

 

This is what you need too do, forget him and work on yourself have you dated much?

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