girlfriends are two faced

[Sugarkane]

I recieved a text message the other night, from my friend who moved interstate [i'll call her friend #1]. It was usual chit chat, but then it said our other friend [i'll call her friend #2] is flying up to see her. Then it said "wish you could come too, miss you".

 

I was pissed off why didn't they invite me? I could've came too, but they didn't even bother to ask me? Friend #2 I haven't heard from in many months. She kept making lame excuses not to see me. She either had too much homework [a complete lie, she was only doing a short coarse] or she had no money [another lie, she had a job]. But now she has both the time and the money for a return flight? How convienent.

 

I texted back to friend#1 that I would've come up, if you had bothered to invite me. Friend#2 cut me off without even an explaination. But now she can somehow find the time and money for a domestic flight? A day later and I still haven't gotten an answer from her.

 

Why would you do this to someone you have known for years? This is why I hate being friends with girls, they're so catty.

 

What should I do?

[DreamerGirl27]

for friend #1, it honestly sounds like something I'd do on accident. Not even meaning to hurt her feelings.

 

for friend #2, I have a friend like that as well. She's extremely anti social, but I don't care, I have other friends to keep me occupied. I totally understand where she's coming from. She just broke up with her boyfriend and she's probably miserable. I can understand that. I've been there. Where all I want to do is hibernate in my room and shut the world out. I'm a girl. I get depressed and I'm a lot more emotional.

 

this is exactly why I love female friends. They're just like me and I understand them and I don't get catty with them.

 

I'd just brush it off and wouldn't make such a big deal about it.

 

The number one thing I hate about girls is when they say their girlfriends suck.

[Mcnulty]

I think you have every reason to feel left out and a bit bewildered by their dismissiveness...especially friend#2.

 

Friend #1 has a distance from you, that will make it a little harder to maintain the friendship as it once was, but #2 is obviously not being a friend to you, i would give up on her.

 

Try not to take things to heart too much, people arrange and do things without thinking and considering others sometimes.

 

By the way, i work with a clique of women, about 3 of them and I have to watch my back constantly with them...I'd much rather work with guys...I feel isolated.