Chick with boyfriend who may be Attracted?????????

[dirtyme99]

-- I like this chick alot and we flirt alot over lunch (at school, we sit together) and we always make eye contact and smile ect. normal flirty ****. We are both into the same stuff and what not and i think shes attracted to me or it seems that way....but she has a boyfriend of over a year..personally i dont think they fit well....what im saying is that im better for her....but im NOT sure how to move in???????????? any help please?

[Qicah]

Have you ever asked her if she loves her bf? I mean, do you have idea if this girl loves his bf or not?

 

 

There's nothing wrong with sitting together, eye contacts and smile if you two get along well and are friends. Girls with bf can do that to their guy friends without malice or attraction or any more-than-friend feeling to them. Make sure your thought that she likes you is right.

 

Don't judge their relationship. How do you know that they don't fit well??? If you think so, why have they gone a year in a relationship? You may say you are better than him, but dirtyme99, you are not her. Only she can tell who can make her happy.

 

If you have the guts to let her know about how you feel, tell her about it. If she chooses you over his bf, then that proves that she thinks you are better than him. If she decides to keep his bf, then there might have a risk of losing the friendship between you.

[CurlyIam]

I don't believe it's a good idea to confront her. Only because she has a boyfriend doens't mean she can't flirt. It's not nice, but we're all humans. I may also say it doesn't necessarily mean anything, just that she loves the attention.

 

Be cool, don't push, play your game, flirt away, intrigue her with your attitude (it's so much easier to handle a girl once you caught her interest) and see what happenes. Nothing wrong with tempting the girl...