annabelle Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 I would like some advice from anybody who has an opinion on this subject. I'm in college, and there's this guy who lives in the same dorm I do. We're friends, but complicated things by making out (several times, and most when one or the both of us has been drinking). At one point, he actually came to me and asked me if it would be okay for him to ask me out sometime. I said yes, but now, I don't know what to think. I've had several loooong conversations with him, and what he usually ends up saying is either he likes me, but isn't ready for a relationship right now unless he knows it's gonna be long term, or that he likes me but doesn't want a relationship at all right now. I realize that the best thing to do would be to give up on him, but every time I see him I get a little flutter in my stomach, and then I don't know what to think. Any advice on the subject would be greatly appreciated! Link to post Share on other sites
Qicah Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 He maybe likes you, likes to hang around with you but afraid to be in a relationship that he thinks would only end up hurting him. Don't expect anything from him but friendship. Stay friends with him but be on guard with your emotions. Don't fall until he asks you to be his gf. If he'll get over his fears and is sure enough about his feelings for you, maybe he'll do that!!! AJ Link to post Share on other sites
Author annabelle Posted April 16, 2004 Author Share Posted April 16, 2004 Thanks for the advise. There's something else I forgot to mention-I'm going to be living in a house with him this summer (with a bunch of other people too). How do I handle being around him all the time? Link to post Share on other sites
Qicah Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 It's only you who can handle your emotions. Hanging around with him is really just fine if your heart knows the limit... If you fall for him and he doesn't want to go that far, then you'll end up being hurt. But you can ignore him if you want and hang around with other friends. In that way, less tendency to be crazy in love with him... Link to post Share on other sites
Qicah Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 It's only you who can handle your emotions. Hanging around with him is really just fine if your heart knows the limit... If you fall for him and he doesn't want to go that far, then you'll end up being hurt. But you can ignore him if you want and hang around with other friends. In that way, less tendency to be crazy in love with him... If he will realize that he needs and loves you, he will come again knocking your door. Time for you to reciprocate his love or reject it...Depends on you! AJ Link to post Share on other sites
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