YoungSuccesful Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 I need to know how you can tell if someone is seeing another person or cheating with another person... Im pretty obtuse so any info will help me... Thanks... Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 There are all kinds....some are classic and very conventional while some are not so common.... Why don't you go ahead and describe what is going on, and that would be the best way to determine "what if" Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Wait, I just read your other thread, and is it YOU that is cheating, and you are trying to avoid getting caught? If that's the case, you can save yourself the anxiety of the paranoia and just knock it off. Link to post Share on other sites
Jamma Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Sly, but not sly enough! Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 There was a post on this forum "Signs of A Cheater" a while back. But believe me, if this is in regards to you cheating, there is such a thing as intuition. The other person often feels something isn't right in the relationship, even if their bf/gf isn't coming home with the classic signs. If you cheat on her, chances are she will eventually find out. Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 and Amen to that Link to post Share on other sites
Author YoungSuccesful Posted April 16, 2004 Author Share Posted April 16, 2004 NO NO NO It is not me guys... I think she is cheating on me...I was blinded from noticing b/c AS YOU ALREADY KNOW FROM MY OTHER THREAD I have had OTHER THINGS on my mind for a while... I was just starting to come to my senses and try and make myself THINK that this new girl was just that (SOMETHING NEW AND EXCITING) and that I needed to let it be and continue my GREAT RELATIONSHIP with my fiancee' But in light of these new feelings...I'm torn yet again...so that is why I return the the WISE COUNCIL OF LOVESHACK Link to post Share on other sites
Debster Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 A good relationship does not have: 1) one person kissing someone else 2) one person questioning an engagement 3) concerns that one person is cheating 4) Communication issues You're young and there is nothing wrong with not being ready to be married - unless of course if you are engaged. If you are doubting her faithfulness and you were considering cheating - then obviously this relationship needs to be worked on or ended. You need to decide which way you want to go. Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Originally posted by YoungSuccesful NO NO NO It is not me guys... I think she is cheating on me...I was blinded from noticing b/c AS YOU ALREADY KNOW FROM MY OTHER THREAD I have had OTHER THINGS on my mind for a while... I was just starting to come to my senses and try and make myself THINK that this new girl was just that (SOMETHING NEW AND EXCITING) and that I needed to let it be and continue my GREAT RELATIONSHIP with my fiancee' But in light of these new feelings...I'm torn yet again...so that is why I return the the WISE COUNCIL OF LOVESHACK Then by all means, tell us what she's doing to make you suspect she's cheating Link to post Share on other sites
EmmaT Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Is there a 18 yrold college man she has been hanging around alot and making a fool of herself about? I hope u guys break up soon and she finds a man more mature then you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author YoungSuccesful Posted April 16, 2004 Author Share Posted April 16, 2004 Harsh... I consider myself to be pretty mature...I have alot more growing up to do...but why did I get hit with that from left field...? Link to post Share on other sites
morrigan Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 To be honest with you, if you both are pursuing other people, it would just be mature to end the relationship. Infidelity often occurs when someone is disatisfied with some part of the current relationship. That doesn't make the act of cheating any less foolish or selfish. Link to post Share on other sites
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