shadowrider2000 Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 It all started 5 years ago. I met this one woman that did everything that I want in a woman. She is bisexual (which I knew going into the relationship)and one night I couldn't take it anymore with her and her female lover and we had it out. Her lover hit me with a frying pan and broke my nose. After that night broke it off with her, totally alienated her......we didn't speak for 9 months. After that night I met another woman who I am currently with. We married a year later and are currently still married. We tried to be just friends but we are so much more, I still see the other woman....she brings something out of me no one else can. Don't get me wrong I love my wife...It is just getting to a point I am going to have to choose. To make matters even more complicated I have a son with the other woman. I know everything that I have done to this point I have brought on myself.....But now I don't know what to do anymore..........I'm tired of all the lies..... Link to post Share on other sites
Debster Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Is this a typo or when you write 'did everything I want in a woman' did you mean sexually? Please clarify. Link to post Share on other sites
fredrolin Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 I think your number one priority is making sure your son has a normal stable household to grow up in. Too many immature people bring children into this world and these kids are not properly raised because the parents are too self centered or ignorant to realize what they got themselves into. I am a 40 year old man stuck in a miserable marriage but I stick with it for the sake of my child; my child's well being is more important than my selfish desires. Link to post Share on other sites
Author shadowrider2000 Posted April 16, 2004 Author Share Posted April 16, 2004 I have a pretty high standard for the women I meet. This all I meant by my comment. I guess my biggest issue is do I break one heart to mend another one. My wife loves me to death, but on the same note so does the other woman. And that one night 5 years ago changed everything. I am now 30 years old, my wife is 37 years old and my lover is my age. The strange thing was when me and my lover met, we thought we were soulmates. And after that one indecretion that one night I screwed up and left her. She tried to get me back, but I would not listen to what she had to say. And I went to another woman over that one night. And it is like all this is starting to cause me emotional stress. Should I stay with my wife or should I leave and go to my lover, the mother of my child? Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 ...It is just getting to a point I am going to have to choose !!! [color=blue]JUST [/color]getting to that point! Do you wife a favor and leave her. Its horrible to be married to someone who doesn't love you. Give her the opportunity to move on and find some happiness of her own. Link to post Share on other sites
fredrolin Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 like I said, forget your own selfish needs and think of the child you brought into this world. That is your main responsibility. Link to post Share on other sites
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