c0ol Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 Well I am in this relationship with this girl I met about a year ago. I just turned 24 and she just turned 19... Once I asked her out about 2 months ago I already knew I was getting in a tough situation. The girl's parents are very strict, no dating till she finishes college. I was here thinking maybe if things worked out that maybe she would slowly break it to her mother and tell her about the relationship and stuff. That seems like it's not gonna happend. So the only way we see each other is when I goto her work and go out to lunch. I do this now just once or twice week since it's not on my way to work anymore. Then on weekends im lucky I see her and spend more time. So yesterday we talked things over the phone for 2 hours... we discussed some options of either breaking up or giving it another try and starting from scratch. So trying to see what can I do special tomorrow when I see her to give it a jumpstart. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted April 16, 2004 Share Posted April 16, 2004 You're not going to win over her parents so give up on that. She obviously loves her parents and if she sees that you have no respect for their wishes she'll have no respect for you. You were put on notice right up front that her parents don't want her dating until she gets out of college. Therefore, what you have been getting out of the relationship....lunches, some time on the weekends....is a hell of a lot more than she gives other guys. Either buy into the program or hit the road because until she graduates from college, it's as good as it gets. Link to post Share on other sites
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