jazzbee Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 (edited) I feel stupid because any other smart person would say obviously not forget them but i was raised to forgive and im also sensitive always looking at the positives instead of negatives. I am so unsure about this though because they use to be my best friends we were like sisters, we did everything together. It's stupid that i would ever let a guy ruin my friendship with them but it was their fault too. It is girl code even guy code to never date your friends ex even more important your best friends ex, but both of them dated him and they knew how i felt about it. What hurt me was that they did it to me and didn't even care how i felt they just did it and didn't see how they hurt me. Neither did he i felt so betrayed by three people i cared about all i could think of was why ? And now a year later i am over it because it was extremely stupid and i've matured from that. I haven't had any contact with any of them until recently both of my former best friends messaged me wanting to fix our friendship i just can't bring myself to reply. I just feel so confused i am trying to look at it differently but i can't seem to do it, i just think of the hurt but i feel kind of open to fixing it but honestly do they even deserve my friendship anymore ? it's not because of the guy either it's just the fact that they betrayed me like that. I don't know advice please ? Edited June 10, 2011 by jazzbee spelling mistake Link to post Share on other sites
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