Saeri Posted June 10, 2011 Share Posted June 10, 2011 I have been in an emotionally abusive marriage for 25 years. I went to counseling years ago for it and then quit going. 2 of my kids will be gone soon so I have been trying to figure out what to do. I've signed up for school in the fall. I started counseling again last week and have gone once. My h travels alot. He is not near as bad as he used to be. My counselor had been having me read a couple of books. I have set boundaries with him. I am going away to a workshop Sunday and am excited! Because he has been gone, I have been feeling good. He knows something is wrong and I told him he needs ic or I'm done with the marriage. He sill has no idea that what he has done is wrong. He thinks he can fix himself. He calls and texts me 100x a day. He told me he is coming home a day early to spend tomorrow with me. I should be thrilled. As soon as he told me that, my happy mood went away and now I'm having palpitations and feel sick. Because he knows he is in trouble I am sure he will be nice once he gets home. Why am I like this??? I feel so down and beat right now. I did tell him no sex. He wants to take me to a lake for fun. At first I said no and then felt sorry for him so I told him I would go. I should be happy and alls I want to do is cry. Link to post Share on other sites
ON MY OWN Posted June 13, 2011 Share Posted June 13, 2011 IMO its your intuition about the marriage and feelings surrounding the marriage. Link to post Share on other sites
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