Kimber Posted April 17, 2004 Share Posted April 17, 2004 Hi, I have been here before as you all know, One little question, What would you do about your b/f's g/f's bad habbits. I do not mean looking at other chicks, I mean always picking the nose, spitting, picking butt and farting all the time, I have told him many times how much this bothers me, It is to the point that I will not go anywhere with him(his friends) cuz of this, lol,,, they look at me like i am doing something wrong... PLEASE HELP!!!!!! THANK YOU KIMBER Link to post Share on other sites
soccorsilly Posted April 17, 2004 Share Posted April 17, 2004 ..so if he cannot respect your wishes, I say ditch him if it turly bothers you which apparently it does. If he feels the need to pick his nose, ass and fart, let him do it when he is out with the boys, but not in your company. Hey, we all pick our noses and our asses at times--my kids and I play look for the nose picker on the way to school. But it boils down to respect. I was married for ten years and since my divorce had two serious relationships, and I would NEVER fart in front of a woman...it is common courtesy--leave the room, hold it in, etc. Maybe the only exception is illness but even then I dunno! So, maybe tall pne more time and let him know this is AN ISSUE! Give him an ultimatum and stick with it! Link to post Share on other sites
Fritz Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 Well, not picking ones nose infront of another/farting is just common courtesy in general. No one really wants to see/hear/smell that. Having said that, if I'm in a serious relationship and neither one of us is comfortable to let one rip every so often thats pretty sad. Sort of like the whole, hearing your partner have a rather noisy bout with Montezuma's revenge and not making a big deal about it. Oh, I forgot, women never "fart". Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 Next time he picks his nose and eats it, know that he loves you enough to take care of himself. http://www.capetimes.co.za/index.php?fArticleId=385961 Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 Ok, I all choked up about this one...I liked Soccor's response, that about sums it up. I think the guy is completely disrespectful, and it is pretty gross. Link to post Share on other sites
krbshappy71 Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 If you are dating and already finding fault with him, decide how important this is to you. If you can deal with it, then deal, if not, move on. You have no right to try and change him. He is who he is, his faults are his own, either accept the whole package or let the poor guy find someone who will. If you are willing to give up a perfectly loving person for those trivial bodily-function reasons, then that's your choice. We all have our breaking points. Just remember, no one is perfect, so you will just be moving on to the next person and finding out what's not perfect with them. Link to post Share on other sites
kimber Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 I fully understand that no one is perfect, however this is even being done in fro nt of company, then there is a blow out when I do not want to go to his friends place, He wants me to meet his family and I already can see how that is all going to be.... not a good meeting, thank you all for your responces, yes i do find fault in him, the biggest one is that he thinks that it is all funny when i say that it is bothering me... thanks guys!! Kimber Link to post Share on other sites
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