Kat Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 Easy. Have a man lie to you about another women and you soon learn REAL quick to hate them Link to post Share on other sites
Author CurlyIam Posted April 21, 2004 Author Share Posted April 21, 2004 Originally posted by Kat Easy. Have a man lie to you about another women and you soon learn REAL quick to hate them LOOL Link to post Share on other sites
Author CurlyIam Posted April 21, 2004 Author Share Posted April 21, 2004 Arabess posted something about hitting the road when you're the other woman and mentioned that should she run into her MM the only road she'd hit would be the "road kill". It's exactly the picture I have in mind, now that you've started speaking of it. Link to post Share on other sites
BlockHead Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 CurlyIam Maybe it's true and I am all about stereotypes, maybe Fed is better towards me, but it's because of men like yourself she got bitter in the first place.Oh boy, it’s my fault again. I have got to stop being a jerk. Are you demanding an apology? CurlyIam If you didn’t notice, Samson is a depressed guy. Samson We may lie because your constant hounding search for knowing every detail of our every activity is irritating, annoying, and has driven us to the brink of sanity, where we feel irrationally compelled to lie, YES! LIE, DAMNIT! SO WE CAN MAINTAIN SOME SENCE OF OUR OWN IDENTITIES!I can feel the repressed rage. Samson Or, they just LOOOOVE the "Gottcha region!"Sounds like a game of NIGYSOB. http://frogsandprinces.dawntreader.net/appendixa.html#sob CurlyIam Maybe your whole argument is a game of IFWY. http://frogsandprinces.dawntreader.net/appendixa.html#ifwy Link to post Share on other sites
Author CurlyIam Posted April 21, 2004 Author Share Posted April 21, 2004 Sounds like a game of NIGYSOB. http://frogsandprinces.dawntreader....endixa.html#sob CurlyIam Maybe your whole argument is a game of IFWY. http://frogsandprinces.dawntreader....ndixa.html#ifwy This is too good to be true LOOOOOOOOOOL ROTFLMAO Link to post Share on other sites
Author CurlyIam Posted April 21, 2004 Author Share Posted April 21, 2004 Now that I've stopped laughing... I think the sites (used the links) were cruel and undermeaning. Think whatever you like, post whatever you want, it's a free internet! I don't even feel sorry for you. I'm almost glad you're that way, 'cause you desirve it! Now find someone else to play with. Link to post Share on other sites
BlockHead Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 CurlyIam Think about it. You established a relationship with a guy. You invested a great deal of time and energy regardless of the fact that things weren’t going so well. You start to believe that he forced you to do this or that. Maybe you are trying to avoid the guilt of knowing that you are responsible for your actions, and you are responsible for allocating your time and energy. To avoid this guilt, you project it onto men in general. Did men like me waste your time, and energy? No, you wasted your time, and energy. I am not responsible for your lying hubby or boyfriend. Did you know he was a liar, and still pursue a relationship with him? Link to post Share on other sites
Author CurlyIam Posted April 21, 2004 Author Share Posted April 21, 2004 Originally posted by BlockHead CurlyIam Think about it. You established a relationship with a guy. You invested a great deal of time and energy regardless of the fact that things weren’t going so well. You start to believe that he forced you to do this or that. Maybe you are trying to avoid the guilt of knowing that you are responsible for your actions, and you are responsible for allocating your time and energy. To avoid this guilt, you project it onto men in general. Did men like me waste your time, and energy? No, you wasted your time, and energy. I am not responsible for your lying hubby or boyfriend. Did you know he was a liar, and still pursue a relationship with him? No, I only find myself responsible for seeing to much in a relationship where ther isn't that much to see. I thought things were doin'great, I did not pressure, nor did I want too much all of the sudden. And then I busted his a$$, without even realising it. So I got to think about those other times when stories didn't fit. Not big lies, mostly white lies. I shouldn't care, but the truth is it hurts like hell knowing I've been lied to. So I can't say I've invested too much time in it, as we've dated for 2 and a half months. Nor too much energy,as we barely see eachother once a week. I am guilty of really wanting to make it work and not reading the signs. About "projecting the guilt onto men in general". I admit one of my greatest fears is being lied to, that along being cheated. So I posted my question as I really needed to hear normal guys telling me that, no, men don't actually always lie, he's a jerk etc etc. Was looking for a bit of comfort, as most people who post here, not being labeled as a "women hater", incapable of getting or receiving love. I do not hate men, I don't think their the source of all my mysery and I am sure none of the women who replyed on this thread do (or so I think). It's fun to "blame it on men", just like for men it's fun to "blame it on women". So, just like my friend Samson earlier, I may act like I do, but I DON'T MEAN IT! I actually love men and it would bore me to death to live my life without them. Link to post Share on other sites
BlockHead Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 CurlyIam I admit one of my greatest fears is being lied to, that along being cheated.Get over your insecurities. The risk of being lied to is unavoidable in any relationship. If you can’t deal with it, then stay single. CurlyIam It's fun to "blame it on men", just like for men it's fun to "blame it on women".I know. It is all one big game. CurlyIam So, just like my friend Samson earlier, I may act like I do, but I DON'T MEAN IT!That doesn’t change the fact that you are doing this at the expense of others. Link to post Share on other sites
Samson Posted April 21, 2004 Share Posted April 21, 2004 Post: 59 | Quote: quote:CurlyIam I admit one of my greatest fears is being lied to, that along being cheated. Get over your insecurities. The risk of being lied to is unavoidable in any relationship. If you can’t deal with it, then stay single. quote:CurlyIam It's fun to "blame it on men", just like for men it's fun to "blame it on women". I know. It is all one big game. quote:CurlyIam So, just like my friend Samson earlier, I may act like I do, but I DON'T MEAN IT! That doesn’t change the fact that you are doing this at the expense of others. HUH: I'm not even sure what part of this thread I'm about Link to post Share on other sites
lilmoma1973 Posted May 29, 2004 Share Posted May 29, 2004 [font=courier new][/font][color=darkblue][/color] i am not bashing all men but in my expierence of men they have lied cheated and deceived .. they say if they tell us we will BITCH them out !! i think that is just an excuse to keep things from us.. my s/o goes behind my back and does alot of things without telling me and i have to find out through his emails ... ebay and buying unneccessary things have caused alot of problems in our relationship.. so far i say that men lie and do things behind our back sorry you men not like it but you do it!! Link to post Share on other sites
dudesomewhere Posted May 29, 2004 Share Posted May 29, 2004 I don't lie...and that's all I'm going to say about that cuz this thread is long and I might start my own Link to post Share on other sites
Author CurlyIam Posted May 29, 2004 Author Share Posted May 29, 2004 Right! And women don't lie either, so that settles it! Link to post Share on other sites
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