70K20 Posted April 17, 2004 Share Posted April 17, 2004 If she is going thru with a sep. agreement,I gather the writing is on the wall??...its truly over? Link to post Share on other sites
Tra Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 Did you both agree on a Separation? It sounded like it was a suprise to you? A separation doesn't necessary mean its over! It's just time apart. Maybe this may just be what you need! Link to post Share on other sites
reasontosigh Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 I found more of the story here: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t36557/ This is apparently something she wants. Does that make things impossible? Maybe not. My take from the other thread was that you weren't in counseling long enough to even determine if there would be any benefits from it, much less what those benefits are. If she doesn't want to go back to joint counseling, you could still benefit from individual counseling. A number of the posters here swear by <URL removed> - give it a try. Link to post Share on other sites
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