ProjekctionMan Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 You need to want to do more than bone her, if you want a relationship. Dude. Go. See. A. Hooker. Get over your sexual frustration! Link to post Share on other sites
RovingReporter Posted June 15, 2011 Share Posted June 15, 2011 How about if I ask her if she wants to work together on our paper and like meetup somewhere? How do I get to talk to her to let her know I'm interested in her? You contact her by any means necessary. Phone, email, facebook etc. Why are you still posting? text/call her! Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted June 16, 2011 Author Share Posted June 16, 2011 I just sent her a text asking her if she needs any help on the paper. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted June 16, 2011 Author Share Posted June 16, 2011 She texted me back. She said thanks, and will let me know if she needs help with me. Link to post Share on other sites
welikeincrowds Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 "one goal". never a more fitting username. i laugh every time i see it. Link to post Share on other sites
EasyHeart Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 You need to be more direct so you don't get friendzoned. Text her: "I want to bone you." Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted June 16, 2011 Author Share Posted June 16, 2011 So we exchanged a few texts back and forth about school. Since I'm getting more comfortable talking to her what should I talk about in class once I get to talk to her more? Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 So we exchanged a few texts back and forth about school. Since I'm getting more comfortable talking to her what should I talk about in class once I get to talk to her more? You talk about how you want to bone her. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted June 16, 2011 Author Share Posted June 16, 2011 So like at school should I start talking more? Like summer classes end the last day of July. Like when should I ask her out? Like early July? Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 So like at school should I start talking more? Like summer classes end the last day of July. Like when should I ask her out? Like early July? Next time you see her. Link to post Share on other sites
Professor X Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 Did your teacher approve of this? Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted June 16, 2011 Author Share Posted June 16, 2011 Seriously guys can you stop joking and give me some real advice? Link to post Share on other sites
molimo140 Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 Seriously guys can you stop joking and give me some real advice? Oh man.. this thread is great. The thing is.. you're absolutely clueless. There's almost nothing that we can tell you to do at this point other than what we already have. There is useful information on the first page. You're going to need to learn this stuff for yourself. TALK TO HER like a human being would talk to another. Small talk.. ask her what she did over the weekend. LISTEN and RESPOND to what she says, try to gauge if she seems interested in talking to you or if she is just doing so to be polite. If she seems interested, ask her to hang out outside school, it doesn't have to be something complicated. Then and only then can you take out your wiener. But in all seriousness, stop worrying about what to do and just take chances. Link to post Share on other sites
welikeincrowds Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 Seriously guys can you stop joking and give me some real advice? we can probably get a better idea of what to say to her if you give us more information about her, like a link to her facebook account. Link to post Share on other sites
LexiB Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 "one goal". never a more fitting username. i laugh every time i see it. Ditto. Although now I think it should be changed to "New Goal". Link to post Share on other sites
grkBoy Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Be confident and friendly. She walks into class, you both make eye contact, confidently smile and say hello. If she replies, and you two can chat, just ask her how she's doing today. Small talk. See if she's interested in talking to you when it's not about class stuff. If you two get chatty, get to know her. If you two leave class chatty, ask her where she's off to next. If she's free, or even tosses you a bone and says "I'm starving. I need food", as her if she wants to get lunch with her. Get to know her some more, see if she's socially comfortable with you. This will happen over time of course...not one day. If suddenly you two are totally open, sociable, friendly, etc...then maybe in chatting try to ask her out. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 Way it sounds is I should take it slow with her. Not come on too fast to her and scare her off. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Maybe she's scared already. Link to post Share on other sites
Kaplan Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 So I looked her up on facebook, and according to facebook she goes to a university on the other side of the state, and probably just home for the summer taking summer classes. So do I have to make a move fast now? Why are you stalking her already? You haven't even talked to her yet. Link to post Share on other sites
Mme. Chaucer Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Why are you stalking her already? You haven't even talked to her yet. After he talks to her would be a more appropriate time for the stalking? Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 After he talks to her would be a more appropriate time for the stalking? Seriously, I'm taking it slower this time and not rushing. Hopefully I get to talk to her in class more for our group project. Summer classes end the end of July and class only meets twice a week so I dont' have a lot of classes to talk to her. At least I have her number so if worse comes to worse and I don't get to ask her out I can get ahold of her. You guys told me to not hit on the teachers, and try to talk to girls in my class, and I'm trying to do just that. Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 You guys told me to not hit on the teachers, and try to talk to girls in my class, and I'm trying to do just that. Glad to see you paying attention, or is it just that you don't have any hot teachers this semester? Good luck with this girl. Just talk to her the same way you would talk to a friend... ask how she is, what she did at the weekend, what she's doing this weekend, would she like to get a coffee with you after class and talk about your assignment. Listen to what she says and how she says it. Pay attention to body language. You might get clues about whether she wants to be your friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Author one goal Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 Glad to see you paying attention, or is it just that you don't have any hot teachers this semester? Good luck with this girl. Just talk to her the same way you would talk to a friend... ask how she is, what she did at the weekend, what she's doing this weekend, would she like to get a coffee with you after class and talk about your assignment. Listen to what she says and how she says it. Pay attention to body language. You might get clues about whether she wants to be your friend. Like if I don't get a chance to talk to her a lot in class, is it ok to text her a little and ask how she's doing? Link to post Share on other sites
Kaplan Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Like if I don't get a chance to talk to her a lot in class, is it ok to text her a little and ask how she's doing? Text her a picture of your Anthony Weiner! Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Like if I don't get a chance to talk to her a lot in class, is it ok to text her a little and ask how she's doing? It's fine with me. Link to post Share on other sites
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