MovingOn13 Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 Long story short...ex first love contacts me via a fb friend req after 5 months of break up and 100 percent NC with the exception of me going up to say hi a month after the break up at a college volunteer meeting. When i saw it...i just felt kinda in a mini shock. She is just as prideful as i am about things like this, iniciating contact... reaching out to someone etc. During these 5 months i have been growing so much and learning about my strengths and faults in life and in relationships. I am only 20. I did the best i could to move on and be stronger...NC, avoided mutual friend profiles etc. I dont really know what this means...it is just FB..and the break up made me resent FB. This could be just crumbs, maybe she misses me, maybe she just wants to snoop on me. Thankfully, however, through the power of NC and family...either way this goes...i am GREAT. IN or out of my life i am the same guy and i now know i have the power! Boy it feels good. I don't plan on accepting it...i will simply message her saying she has my # and knows where i live. FB is too informal and full of fake stuff of people trying to validate themselves. I never saw this coming. Link to post Share on other sites
reimeivn Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 It is true that fb is sort of fake. People all try to be happy and whenever you tell somebody you are sad, people look at you like you are a pathetic loser. Link to post Share on other sites
reimeivn Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 I did be friend with an ex again after a long time. But he did not hurt me by any mean, just cowardly broke up with me and went distance. Because of how he is as a boyfriend and as a person, I accepted it. But the other ex, no. He treated me badly, and he broke up with me the meanest way possible. Now that I know what kind of person he is. I dont think I want to be friend with him. Link to post Share on other sites
wilsonx Posted June 14, 2011 Share Posted June 14, 2011 just ignore it, its breadcrumbs, shes trying to see how you are doing because she probably isnt happy with her life... Keep her blocked... Im never unblocking mine, no need to unless she wants me back Link to post Share on other sites
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