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What do you do if you husband is always mad or upset? Is it safe to say something to him or just leave him alone until he comes around?

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Fedup&givingup

Since he is your husband, you should be comfortable in being able to approach him or communicate with him.

 

Could you maybe give a little more detail about your situation?

 

And why did you put this in the long distance relationship arena?

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The best time would be only when he is ready.

 

When people are upset, they are confused and cannot be totally rational.

 

Give him his space and time, he will eventually come around. When he does, approach him on the matter in a peaceful manner.

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and if your a typical female, then i suppose its NEVER your fault right? just trying to point out things that might not be so obvious, cuz i have freids with the same "problems" who are rude to, or treat theyr guys like crap and come to me asking "whats wrong with him?"

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What do you do if you husband is always mad or upset?

Try and help, be as sympathetic as you can and if that makes no difference, ignore him. What else can you do?

 

Is it safe to say something to him or just leave him alone until he comes around?

If it's not safe then you should consider leaving, no one should stay in an unsafe relationship. If someone refuses to communicate with you then yes, leave him alone until he comes around. Meanwhile make sure you do not put your life on hold - that's a recipe for unhappiness.

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yeah sorry I thought I had put it in a different post but I just relized it...but yeah he gets upset over little things for example when it comes to things needed such as food for the house and stuff like that he says "Well we don't have money right now don't you understand?", but he has alot of mood swings and I am sorry about where I posted I will be sure to becareful nest time...thanks so much! :)

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