only1nacole Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 I dated a guy for 3 months (not quite but almost). Actually, two weeks before our 3 month anniversary we broke up. We'd talked twice during the 2 wks time-frame but only once was it about our relationship. The Saturday morning at 3am he calls and wants to talk about our relationship. He was pretty drunk. I went over to his place and the whole time I was there basically all he said was I love you and I'm sorry. He said he didn't want our relationship to end. He thought he wasn't making me happy. He was making new friends and got scared because he felt so much for me. I left his place at 2pm Saturday. I haven't heard from him or seen him since. I don't know if I should be worried, angry, or pissed. Worried that something happened to him. Angry that he's fine, we are fine but he just hasn't called because 9 chances out of 10 he's probably working. Or pissed that it truly is the booty call that it now feels like. Would a guy really go through all that...even profusely stating how much he loved me...just for booty?? Link to post Share on other sites
Bill Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 If you think it is a "booty call", it probably is. Link to post Share on other sites
Author only1nacole Posted April 18, 2004 Author Share Posted April 18, 2004 i'd have been cool with a booty call it if it was honest. i wouldn't have done it lol but i'd have been better with the honesty. i don't think i'd be upset if that's all it was. i absolutely cannot stand lies. i've heard way too many of them. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 lessons learned (hopefully): 1)don't go over to your drunk ex's house at 3am. tell him to come to yours when it's convenient for you. 2)don't believe a horny drunk man's words 3)don't sleep w/ an ex right after the "reconciliation" - take a couple of weeks to settle back into the r/s better luck next time, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author only1nacole Posted April 18, 2004 Author Share Posted April 18, 2004 ha! no kidding! definately lessons learned!!! Link to post Share on other sites
SoleMate Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 "he got scared because he felt so much for me" Hearing that line, I would have been doubled up with laughter! Is there anyone out there who actually breaks up with someone they truly love and feel bonded to, just because they "feel so much"? I think his real feeling was, "I want to see/**** other women." And congrats on your recent life lesson. Link to post Share on other sites
Fedup&givingup Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 Guys will say just about anything to get in your pants. Sorry! Link to post Share on other sites
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