Get him back

[Preeti Kadiyan]

Hi,

 

I have been in a relationship of two and half years. We both are from same profession. both done CA together and been friends since 5 years. i used to work with a big company at a big position and he was into advisory firm on an average designation and salary near abouts half on mine. but he is very handsome guy and always feel proud to be that good looking. he always had a thought that any girl of this world would like to be with him. myself 27 years and he is 24 and half. we worked toghter as i gave many assignments of my company to him and he worked personally in his name and earned a huge money. i always helped him to earn money in many ways and gave to him and worked for him. he was very happy with me. we got into relationship and shared a lot. we had physical relations many times. i stayed alone in the city as family is in some other town so every time he came to me to see me.

 

he had affairs in his past. some of them he acccepted to me and some are not. we having same community so i got to know about his other affairs also from friends. offcourse during the time before our relationship. i asked him about them and he fought on these issues and he never ever gave me any satisfactory answer. he started work with a girl who hv been his girlfriend earlier. and he wasnt getting anything out of this work but he continued . i told him that i am feeling insecure but he said he is not talking to her and he will stop it soon. but he did not and kept meeting to her. everytime he meets her i got to know and we fought. but he did not stop. I know that girl. she told me that she asked him whether he has any relationship with me but he simply denied and said i am just his friend. i was shocked and asked him but he said he doesnt want to share our relationship with anybody as he doesnt like.

Then he gave seprate e-mail id to her and said to me taht he is not working with her. but i got to know as she told me. we had a fight and he also had a fight with her and she stoped talking to him at all.

 

after taht we were in our relationship and usually have fights also. but he was committed to me and said we will get marry and we dreamed a lot about our marriage. he shared about his family with me and we were inlove with each other.

problem started agains he always hides things from me when i asked he got angry. he told me he is not feeling like to share as he is very close person. initially we used to talk like 2 hours a day but lateron 40 minutes around.

 

slowly slowly he changed. his behaviour changed towards me. he started stop working with me. though he was working and earning and also showing that he doesnt want. and i wasnt getting nothing out of it. i always thought in the office how to give assignments to him so that he can earn more money. and even in this i lost my job but he did not support me at all. he shouted me stay away from me and was quite rude with me. though we were in a relationship but everyday i ws crying praying to God either change my behaviour or make him love me more. but nothing ws helping me out.

many times he left me alone crying and said he hates my tears. many time said i dont want to persue with u. we dont have anything common. sometimes i am not happy with u. but later on he calmed down and again become mine.

 

but i was completely dependent on him. i forgot myself. till night 2 o'clock i use to wait his call. everytime use to call him and ask for outing. many he dint pick many time he ignores. and lately he started to say like he is in advisory firm and he has no time and very busy so he cnt free for anything. if he will get time he let me know and meet.

 

one day i was out with him one girl called him and politely and very lovingly talkin to her and making plan to meet her after two days. i got wild and asked him u dont have time for me even u dont know whether u can be free in next hour then how cud u make plan with her in two days advance. he said its not necessary to tell me and its his life. he met her and did not tell me who was he. even i got to know it. when i last met him i saw his another ph in his car about which he said he is not carrying another ph. i asked him he ignore and i saw the dailed no. ws of the girl to whom he met. i asked him he said yes there is not need to ask me. we had a huge fight on it. then he dropped me home and said he will speak to me tomorrow as he is not feeling good. Initially he used to say sorry to me for his mistakes many times but lately he just stoped and everytime it was me who said sorry and begged him for my mistakes as well as his mistakes. every time he said its ur last chance change ur behaviour. dont question me ever and i repeated the same.

next morning i callled him up but he dint pick. i called him up continously for 6 days and sent so many lovely sms and said sorry on my part but he did not revert. even when i called him on his office line he cut down the ph after hearing my voice. I begged him in my mesgs a lot but he dint not listen.

on 7 th day i found he has removed me from his friend lis from all social networking sites like fb/orkut. i felt shocked and did not communicate for next 7 days. no ph no call no sms at all. and response from his side.

then next day i called him up but again he cut down the ph. then i sent a sms that whatever u have in ur mind please let me know gracefully but dont run away like this and i believe whatever happened is happened for good. But no response. After that i did not call him/ no mesg nothing and now its been 22 days no communication from anyside. meanwhilw he updated on one site that "its time to move on"

Now i feeling very hurted and want him back in my life and our old days. i dont know what to do what o say. But i think he has moved on and he wont take me back. please save my relationship.

 

Now i am feeling he was a big support to me and i luv him to death . can somebody help as every friend of me telling me just forget about him as he doesnt love u and wont b back.