shellen Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 well guess what..I had a conversation with my ex, basically telling him I did not want contact anymore coz it hurt too much and before we hung up I told him "I love you" and I think that caught him by surprise because he texted me back later saying I never even said that to him over the phone before. But I just ignored that msg and off my mobile. This morning when I switched it on again I realized he tried calling me and sent me another msg saying now I got him thinking if he made the right decision. The right decision here refers to him choosing to continue with his current gf instead of getting back with me. I dun really know what got him feeling that way. Jus because of the "l love you" I said to him? Hmmm now I dunno what's the best thing I should do. Should I just ignore him? I mean I still want to be with him. Should I do something that will turn the situation to my favour though I have absolutely no idea what? What's the best strategy so to speak haha? Link to post Share on other sites
dyermaker Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 Stop the confessions of love. Stop all contact. He knows you're interested in a relationship. Make it clear that you're the kind of girl with enough self-respect to demand a relationship with someone who is not with another girl. If all works out, you'll be glad you did. If not, equally glad, but for a different reason. Link to post Share on other sites
uriel Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 Right -- if your ex is serious about you, he should break up with his current gf and seek a relationship with you. This on the fence junk isn't cool. It's not fair to you or her. If he broke up with you, he'd also have some explaining and apologizing to do. He already knows you very well, I'm guessing. Have you changed? If he cared about you for your own sake (instead of how you make him feel), why would he have walked away? Just words right now. Judge him by his deeds. Keep him accountable. You don't deserve to get hurt again. And no contact for now. Tell him as long as he's with someone else, you think that's for the best. -- uriel Link to post Share on other sites
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