angel_tenniser Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 how long do you wait after being rubbed in your top before going further? and what is the step after that, do you make love next? i am new to dating, parents strict so no knowledge/ Link to post Share on other sites
smudge21 Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 The question isn't what you should do, more what you feel right doing. Don't let peer pressure or society/media dictate how you act during a date. Just remember, it's not a race, there should be no rush to do anything and should never be pressured into doing anything you don't want to do. If you're unsure, don't do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 16, 2011 Author Share Posted June 16, 2011 The question isn't what you should do, more what you feel right doing. Don't let peer pressure or society/media dictate how you act during a date. Just remember, it's not a race, there should be no rush to do anything and should never be pressured into doing anything you don't want to do. If you're unsure, don't do it. not sure, i like him doing in my top and i like to go further because one of my best friends touched in my skirt for fun and i enjoyed it but i told him its wrong because we are just friends and that i have a boyfriend. so i would like my boyfriend to do it because i know its good but just dont want him to think im too fast Link to post Share on other sites
TimothyParadox Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 About 2 minutes and 44 seconds should do. Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 how long do you wait after being rubbed in your top before going further? and what is the step after that, do you make love next? i am new to dating, parents strict so no knowledge/ Being a teenager was about half a lifetime ago for me, but I remember lots of steps (and lots of time) between top-half fun and making love. Most of them very fumbly, many of them drunken, generally enjoyable. Take things slowly, and be prepared to tell your boy to stop if you don't want him to continue at any point. If your parents are so strict that they've failed to educate you about contraception, do some research about that, too. Link to post Share on other sites
OliveOyl Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 Depends on what kind of fastener your bra uses. Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 Depends on what kind of fastener your bra uses. :lmao: That's a good one. Link to post Share on other sites
EasyHeart Posted June 16, 2011 Share Posted June 16, 2011 YOU'RE 15!!! He should not be touching anything besides your hand!!! Link to post Share on other sites
youngskywalker Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Before you go any further down the road to sex you need to contemplate the risks. Anytime you have sex no matter what form of birth control you use there is always a slight risk of getting pregnant. Is it worth it to you at such a young age? Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 About 2 minutes and 44 seconds should do. yep my boyfriend is a bit restless he already has gone all the way with a girl he said. Being a teenager was about half a lifetime ago for me, but I remember lots of steps (and lots of time) between top-half fun and making love. Most of them very fumbly, many of them drunken, generally enjoyable. Take things slowly, and be prepared to tell your boy to stop if you don't want him to continue at any point. If your parents are so strict that they've failed to educate you about contraception, do some research about that, too. my parents do not talk about that but online i read Depends on what kind of fastener your bra uses. lol yeah YOU'RE 15!!! He should not be touching anything besides your hand!!! my fault because he said my body language shows i like it - legs move apart during chestplay. Before you go any further down the road to sex you need to contemplate the risks. Anytime you have sex no matter what form of birth control you use there is always a slight risk of getting pregnant. Is it worth it to you at such a young age? if not then he will call me a tease as my girlfriend got called by her bf. i like sex so far so i probably will like it. Link to post Share on other sites
slvrf0x44 Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Angel ! Let him have what he wants! He is going to get it anyway and you are waiting too Link to post Share on other sites
grkBoy Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 how long do you wait after being rubbed in your top before going further? and what is the step after that, do you make love next? i am new to dating, parents strict so no knowledge/ Go with the flow. Slide your hand down and rub his crotch through his pants. See if he's aroused. For a guy it says "I want you....take me now" From there, start kissing and removing his clothes. Have a condom ready, and go with it all. Don't be afraid if things get awkward...first time with any person can get that way. I read that you're a bit younger...so be sure you're ready to go that way. I'd honestly tell you to wait, but I am an older generation. Maybe half-way with oral or something. IF you decide to go all the way, USE A CONDOM. DO NOT LET HIM GO INTO YOU WITHOUT A CONDOM NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS!!!! Even if he becomes a douchebag and dumps you because he can't go bareback, good riddance. One accidental pregnancy can do more damage to your life than a guy dumping you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 Angel ! Let him have what he wants! He is going to get it anyway and you are waiting too for sure we are really good lovers :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 Go with the flow. Slide your hand down and rub his crotch through his pants. See if he's aroused. For a guy it says "I want you....take me now" From there, start kissing and removing his clothes. Have a condom ready, and go with it all. Don't be afraid if things get awkward...first time with any person can get that way. I read that you're a bit younger...so be sure you're ready to go that way. I'd honestly tell you to wait, but I am an older generation. Maybe half-way with oral or something. IF you decide to go all the way, USE A CONDOM. DO NOT LET HIM GO INTO YOU WITHOUT A CONDOM NO MATTER WHAT HE SAYS!!!! Even if he becomes a douchebag and dumps you because he can't go bareback, good riddance. One accidental pregnancy can do more damage to your life than a guy dumping you. i havent rubbed his croth but sit on it during cuddles/ my best friend has condoms she will give me. maybe do oral for safety then , i play tennis and watch a movie with him tonight Link to post Share on other sites
grkBoy Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 i havent rubbed his croth but sit on it during cuddles/ my best friend has condoms she will give me. maybe do oral for safety then , i play tennis and watch a movie with him tonight Do what makes you happy...just don't feel "pressured". If you're not ready to go all the way, then don't. If he will dump you for that, let him go. Remember...you're in charge of your body and you call the shots when it comes to it. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 YOU'RE 15!!! He should not be touching anything besides your hand!!! You would like to believe that but the actual truthful reality is that at 15 teens are doing way more than holding hands.. When I was a teenager back in the middle to late 70's we were routinely going to 2nd and 3rd base and the lucky ones were the home runs... You cannot sit there on an internet forum and preach holding hands to a 15 year old..hahaha Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Before you go any further down the road to sex you need to contemplate the risks. Anytime you have sex no matter what form of birth control you use there is always a slight risk of getting pregnant. Is it worth it to you at such a young age? Good post....... Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 Do what makes you happy...just don't feel "pressured". If you're not ready to go all the way, then don't. If he will dump you for that, let him go. Remember...you're in charge of your body and you call the shots when it comes to it. thanks! :)maybe after our movie tonight i feel so close to him Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 17, 2011 Author Share Posted June 17, 2011 You would like to believe that but the actual truthful reality is that at 15 teens are doing way more than holding hands.. When I was a teenager back in the middle to late 70's we were routinely going to 2nd and 3rd base and the lucky ones were the home runs... You cannot sit there on an internet forum and preach holding hands to a 15 year old..hahaha cuddling is when i changed. (i was just normal during kissing. but cuddling is like sitting on his lap. that is a different level of closeivity) Link to post Share on other sites
EasyHeart Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 You would like to believe that but the actual truthful reality is that at 15 teens are doing way more than holding hands.. When I was a teenager back in the middle to late 70's we were routinely going to 2nd and 3rd base and the lucky ones were the home runs... You cannot sit there on an internet forum and preach holding hands to a 15 year old..hahahaSame here. That's why I don't want her (or any other 15 year old girls) to do more than hold hands. I KNOW WHAT THOSE BOYS ARE THINKING!!! Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 (i was just normal during kissing. but cuddling is like sitting on his lap. that is a different level of closeivity) Closeivity is a great word. I like it! Also, looking forward to the next update. Be careful! Link to post Share on other sites
youngskywalker Posted June 17, 2011 Share Posted June 17, 2011 Quote: Originally Posted by youngskywalker Before you go any further down the road to sex you need to contemplate the risks. Anytime you have sex no matter what form of birth control you use there is always a slight risk of getting pregnant. Is it worth it to you at such a young age? if not then he will call me a tease as my girlfriend got called by her bf. i like sex so far so i probably will like it. You missed my point. I didn't ask if you think you'll like sex or not. I asked if you're willing to accept the risks involved with sex. Let's say you get pregnant... will you look back and say "why did I do that"? or will you look back and say "wow, it was sooooooo worth it all". Since you're only 15 I suggest you explore yourself a little. This may include holding each other, grinding or possibly oral sex. Just don't rush things. My g/f and I sometimes play a game of doing everything but not having sex. It's fun and exciting for me. I vote that you save yourself for the right moment and the right man. Only you are able to decide that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 18, 2011 Author Share Posted June 18, 2011 Closeivity is a great word. I like it! Also, looking forward to the next update. Be careful! for sure Quote: Originally Posted by youngskywalker Before you go any further down the road to sex you need to contemplate the risks. Anytime you have sex no matter what form of birth control you use there is always a slight risk of getting pregnant. Is it worth it to you at such a young age? You missed my point. I didn't ask if you think you'll like sex or not. I asked if you're willing to accept the risks involved with sex. Let's say you get pregnant... will you look back and say "why did I do that"? or will you look back and say "wow, it was sooooooo worth it all". Since you're only 15 I suggest you explore yourself a little. This may include holding each other, grinding or possibly oral sex. Just don't rush things. My g/f and I sometimes play a game of doing everything but not having sex. It's fun and exciting for me. I vote that you save yourself for the right moment and the right man. Only you are able to decide that. i just saw him last night at tennis and we saw a movie after and in the movie we did that grinding thing where your skirt is scrunched so your bottoms on his crotch/groin. he took his tracksuit down so we both only had underwear on lol thats a good compromize to avoid pregancy he makes me really puffed out! and nno people saw us because no people in our rows Link to post Share on other sites
oaks Posted June 18, 2011 Share Posted June 18, 2011 Aww. I miss being a teenager. What was the movie? Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 18, 2011 Author Share Posted June 18, 2011 (edited) Aww. I miss being a teenager. What was the movie? kung fu panda 2 wish i was living with him as a wife Edited June 18, 2011 by angel_tenniser Link to post Share on other sites
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