tranehead Posted April 18, 2004 Share Posted April 18, 2004 I am looking for a little advice please. I have been seeing this girl for two months now and she recently took me to meet her parents(last week) and she has been acting weird now all this week. We had decided after our first month of dating to not take things to fast and see each other once or twice a week(talking on the phone also once or twice a week), since she felt she needed to move slowly after her last relationship. She was even contemplating us just being friends since she didn’t feel ready but decided to go ahead and see how things went. After almost two months of dating she takes me out to have dinner with her folks(last weekend). Well after that night things just start getting weird. After dinner we split off on our own and go to a show, then after things just died. Little to no conversation and no kiss good night. We play phone tag for the next few nights then hang out mid week, again she is acting very very weird little small talk, and again no kiss good night and she was avoiding eye contact. Well I have let things breath for a few days and waited 3 days to call her, got her machine and now it has been the next day and she hasn’t returned my call. Any idea here about what gives? What would be the best way to handle this for her? thanks, Link to post Share on other sites
Night-Pheonix Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 I wouldn't know what to tell you... I've never had that happen. When my girlfriend gets upset sometimes she's like that, but I can talk to her about it and see what's up. This could just be her losing interest, something happened, or another guy or something... Talk to her and see what's up, if not.. maybe it's time to move on cause communication is the single most important aspect of a relationship of any kind. Link to post Share on other sites
Author tranehead Posted April 19, 2004 Author Share Posted April 19, 2004 well i just went and talked with her.... she feels that we have no "spark" so she feels that she should end it............ What a bunch of crap..we seem to have plenty of "spark" in the past! Link to post Share on other sites
Night-Pheonix Posted April 19, 2004 Share Posted April 19, 2004 It happens, becides it's better to be with someone who won't just up and treat you like garbage because they don't feel a "spark". Eh, all women are insane, it's just finding one with the problem you can deal with that's the real challange. Good luck man.. and really now you can find someone who won't dick you over. You'll be alright, don't worry about it. Link to post Share on other sites
tony3000 Posted April 20, 2004 Share Posted April 20, 2004 Just leave her alone dude! I hope you didn't plead with her. That's the way women are wired. If it's meant to be, she'll start to miss you and come back, if she doesn't then start going to strip clubs.. Works for me! Women want this "spark" to last. That's why women do the breaking up 90% of the time. There are ways you could have kept her interested (challenge) good luck!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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